#with how gc women feel about trans women
really don’t like using “they haven’t experienced oppression like we have” as a reason to exclude fellow minorities for a lot of reasons, but probably a big one I don’t see much of is “if the one single thing everyone in our community has in common is the experience of being victimized, then who are we when we live in a world where we aren’t anymore?”
Aiming for a future where trans/homophobia doesn’t exist, and when we get there, start acting confused about why the the queer “community” is dissolving.
Like… you can’t build a foundation out of sand and wonder why your house is gone when the tide comes in
We’re supposed to be a family, not a museum curation of pain