emberwritesinsight:

Hello Ladies (and everybody else but talking directly to the Ladies)

Friendly reminder that there is no wrong way to be a woman!

Do you like frills and glitter? Dope!

Not a frills person, would wear a suit to a formal event? Awesome!

Long hair? Short hair? Both are excellent!

Do you like cooking, or sewing, stuff like that? Neato! Not your thing? Nice!

Do you want kids? Cool, best of luck! Not interested in having kids? Awesome!

Interested in romance with a man? With another woman? With someone nonbinary? Open to any of those options? Lovely! Hope you find a love interest who treats you right.

Do you want to have sex with someone you don’t know all that well? Go for it! Do you prefer to reach a certain milestone with someone before having sex with them? Cool!

Not interested in romance, or sex? Interested in one but not the other? Awesome, keep doing you.

Do you have a vagina? Neat! A penis? Neat! Some combination of both, for medical reasons? Neat!

Society is full of shit and lots of people are judgemental assholes but that doesn’t change the fact that there is NO WRONG WAY TO BE A WOMAN. None of the above makes someone any more, or any less, of a woman. Your body, sense of style, hobbies, and decisions about relationships are all YOURS, and YOU get to decide what they mean for you.