#about alphas

miscecrisis-deactivated20220222:

I love how all Alphas - as long as I’ve seen and interacted with - no matter the gender, if they’re into guys or girls, into Alphas, Betas or Omegas or if they themselves are males of females or whatnot. It doesn’t matter who they are, they’re all: Just let me do stuff for you, damn!

“Oh, you don’t have to cook this. It’s ready to eat right off the microwa–”

Who said anything abt need? You know what we need? For you to sit your beautiful tushy in a moderately to very soft surface, grab a pillow or one of your stuffies, shut your annoyingly pretty mouth and Let. Us. Love. You! Don’t stop us from doing things for you unless there’s a serious reason for it. It’s a certain way to make your Alpha not just angry/upset but also miserable in the long run.

We know that you can do stuff on your own, we love seeing you do stuff as well. But if we said we’ll cook for you, do the laundry, pay for food, read your book to you while you sit with us/on our lap, brush or wash your hair, give you a message, etc, don’t say “you don’t have to/I can do it”.

We already know that. We’re not doing it because we think you’re incapable, we’re doing it because we love you and want to feel needed and useful.

Unless your Alpha is threading on an uncomfortable, painful or possibly triggering act, let them feel needed. Shutting them down frequently over nothing but pride and insecurity that they think “you’re weak and useless” will make them feel weak and useless.

Most Alphas will not ever think you’re weak and useless but if you’re in a relationship where that is unclear you shouldn’t even be in said relationship in the first place. Relationships are not supposed to be built on mistrust and insecurity like that. There’s something amiss either with how you two are communicating, with how you feel abt yourself or how they feel abt you. Find it and fix it.

Otherwise, please remember: Alphas need to feel needed. If they feel like you don’t need them or that they’re irrelevant in your life, they’re like roses in a drought. They wilt quickly. Strength and independence are important, ofc. But alphas need that little bit extra reassurance no matter what.