#adhd dating

honestly how do people do tinder. not sure if it’s me being a demisexual neurodivergent mess but like… how do people choose?! it’s just a bunch of pictures (which here where i live look almost the exact same person to person, it’s as if people were following a template) with like a one-liner of bio (if anything at all). like ok the ones that are just a guy/girl showing off abs/bootie are easy for me to filter out, but what about the rest. it just feels like going through netflix and deciding what to watch or going through the foodora app deciding what to eat, but with actual human beings. like i feel my soul goes down the drain every time i spend half an hour just swipping left because no one seems appealing enough from just a few pictures and almost no info. and then i see people that are in meaningful cool relationships who met in tinder and i’m again like… how?!?!? i also cannot just swipe right for every person that i could find potentially appealing (in theory) because in the eventuality we’d match, i cannot maintain convos with so many people at once. heck it’s taking me over 4 months to finally meet for a drink with someone with whom i started talking in october (and he was ok with me disappearing for days or weeks at a time). it’s just… i’m starting to think there’s no hope here for me, really. being bisexual? my chances seem theoretically high wrt meeting someone. being bisexual *and* demisexual? my chances have been suddenly reduced to 0.000001%. good luck with that.