#aroace thoughts

talking with my friends (alloromantics) about romance, relationships and crushes, they explained to me that they usually feel a difference between having “crush” and a “person they like.” which made me very confused bc I thought both were the same . but apparently a crush is like unattainable or just physical attraction, whereas a person you like is someone you actually care for, love and want to spend time next to, romantically. kind of made sense but it still made me realize I don’t experience either .