#asian fetish
I understand the concept of racial fetishism, but I fail to see why it’s problematic.
So a white guy likes asian women because they’re asian (and thus he associates them with stereotypes like submissiveness and softness etc) and he likes manga and schoolgirls and japanese culture etc. And he wants a gf who looks east asian… so what ?
It’s not that he doesn’t care about these women or doesn’t see their humanity, it’s just that he likes their appearance. And he’s not appropriating the culture or doing anything disrespectful, he just has a preference when it comes to his romantic partners.
Before multiculturalism was a thing, people could say “I prefer blonde girls, I prefer girls with big thighs, I don’t like skinny, I like brown-hair, I like a submissive girl, I like an assertive girl” but now that different people live together and cultures mix together, it’s somehow innapropriate to say “I prefer Japanese girls, or Latinas, or "I don’t wanna date within this particular ethicity”. Why ?
Taiwan first in Asian to allow open same-sex marriage and another reason for Chinese invasion :)
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Do you ever just see a really hot guy and an “eh” girl beside him and you’re like ?????
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#kpop#dear Asian boys#Asian boys#this happened to me today when I was welcoming the freshmen for their orientation stuff#really hot Asian guy#I think he was Chinese but idk I’m not sure lol#and we were talking and smiling a lot#but then his FUCKING UGLY GIRLFRIEND#who I assUME IS ALSO CHINESE OR SOME OTHER TYPE OF ASIAN#COMES IN AND COMPLETELY JUST PISSED ME OFF because his attention was diverted to HER and not at me anymore#like OK dude you were just flirting with me a second ago but now that you’re fuck buddy’s here you gotta act lowkey#SURE#fuck I fucking hate Asian girls#I’m not being racist#I just do
Whyyyyy do you only date Asian girls?????
It’s seriously messing me the fuck up.
Like seriously, all the Korean, Filipino, and Chinese guys in my college seem to only date the other Korean, Filipino, and Chinese girls (these are the 3 predominant ethnicities in my class, I don’t know of any other).
And I know it’s not some ‘preference’ thing or that your family will only let you date within your ethnicity or stuff like that, because there were very few Korean guy and Korean girl relationships (maybe like 2), or ‘matching’ ethnicity relationships in my college.
Yet you would see a lot of Korean guy/Chinese girl, Chinese guy/Filipino girl, Chinese girl/Filipino guy, Korean girl/Chinese guy. SO OBVIOUSLY THEY’RE OPEN TO ONLY ASIAN GIRLS.
I wanted to bite my tongue earlier, but like… What gives? Asian girls are cute and shit, but physically, I could literally beat their asses. Me and the other white (Hispanic, Caucasian, Irish) girls in my class are all kind of just ??? because it doesn’t make sense.
I just wish you (Asian boys) would stop having preferences and look at the pros of dating girls like us: pretty colored eyes, banging body, personality-wise we’re more spunky and outgoing instead of shy and submissive and shit like that, and our families are less abusive and strict.
I need a fucking coffee break now, my head is hurting from all the frustration.
