#baddate

That was not a good date 
Was he nice? Yes 
Was he talkative? Yes 
Did he offer to pay and refuse me helping to pay? Yes 
HOWEVER
Did we have chemistry? No… 
Did I find him attractive? No… 
Do I want to see him again? No… 
I’m sure people will judge me for this and say, ‘you can’t have everything, he was a gentleman and nice to you but not good enough you’ll never be happy etc etc’. 
Let me say this; 
Just because a guy pays for you (which he doesn’t have to) and is pleasant to talk to and nice, does not mean you are entitled to see them again 
yes, he was a nice person, yes, i’d see him again on a friendly basis 
But I am not going to subject myself to dating someone and messing them around when I know full well I didn’t find them sexually attractive or feel as though we had any sparks or chemistry
Life is too short to be unhappy for the sake of others 
- Becky