Kai: How are you feeling - about this pregnancy?
Melisa:Tired - all I wanted was a nap the entire time I was at work.
Kai: Yeah, I figured that. But how about emotionally? Do you feel ready for this - for us to become parents?
Melisa: I don’t know. There are moments when I’m super excited; I even started trying to come up with some names today. But then the excitement fades away, and I begin to feel scared. I’m nervous about the body changes. Giving birth terrifies me, and what if I don’t know what I’m doing when the baby is born?
I thought I was the only one that felt that way. But this is my chance to be here for her, so I keep my thoughts and feelings to myself. She continues…
Melisa: I wish my mother were here. I want to ask her how she managed with triplets. I don’t know what I’ll do if we have multiple babies. It can run in the family, you know?
I know, and it’s something that I’ve tried to work my way around as well. But what bothers me the most is that her parents live so far away. And I feel like it’s my fault that we live here.
Kai: You can always call her up. Once we break the news, I’m sure they’ll visit as much as possible.
Melisa: I know, but they have lives and careers of their own. They can’t just hop on a plane at a moment’s notice.
She’s right, and our plans of ways we could bridge the gap** suddenly feel so naïve and unrealistic.
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