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Congratulations to the Parhams! Nas and Ti have been together for eight years and recently celebrated their love with a destination wedding in Mexico. The destination wedding was a follow up to a city hall wedding. Ti said, “after city hall, we still wanted to celebrate bigger and have all our family attended.”
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The brides met on Instagram years ago. Ti said there were a lot of thirsty women all over her future bride’s page years ago, commenting under every pic. So, in order to stand out, she found a pic that had no comments and put heart eyes under that pic. It worked!
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They started out their wedding/honeymoon week by turning up during the weekend of Cinco de Mayo.
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Ti said the best part for her, “ was actually walking onto the beach, very nervous, and seeing her at the end of the aisle .
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I was so nervous, I was shaking! And when I finally got down the stairs and I finally saw my best friend/ soulmate, I smiled so hard and all the nervous feelings went away!”
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Congratulations again to these beautiful brides! Wishing you a lifetime of love and happiness.
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““Amy, are you A GAY?” I could hear my mother’s Nigerian accent in my head while I was swooning over these photos. It made me super weak with laughter as I envisioned her being utterly confused about what exactly queer means.
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Here’s the thing, Nigerian parents have a way of ignoring things that they don’t want to know the answer to or already know the answer to but don’t want to acknowledge or discuss it.
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Before getting “left on read” was a thing on social media or via text, Nigerian parents had already mastered this art.
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Curating and maintaining privacy while being explosively socially active is a life skill I should add to my resume. It’s been by choice and design until love happened to me. Like love love. ❤️
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And besides, these photos are honestly too beautiful not to share sooo…..
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SHE is Her:

I’ve fallen deeply in love with a woman. Although she’s not the first woman I’ve been intimate with, in the past I’ve consciously steered clear of relationships with women. “Nah, I don’t date women.” I’ll be honest, anything more than physical seemed “too gay” for me. Whatever that means. Chileeee I’m already unpacking that. I’ll report back when that “luggage” is empty, “clothes” are folded, and all are stored away.
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SHE has allowed me to be more vulnerable, transparent, and even more expressive than I was before. Her beauty is enamoring, her touch is intoxicating, and she sings a song that puts my soul at ease. Bae can sang sang. She melts my heart…her dimples are wide and deep enough for me to find comfort in. Although I find comfort in her extraordinary culinary abilities, her dimples don’t come with calories. Lol.
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She’s sweet. Supportive. Sensible. Smart. Sexy. SHEIS EVERYTHING She’s so damn bomb y’all.
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I also understand her love language is quality time and I haven’t succeeded in that department while laying a foundation to not only entrepreneurship, but a beginning to a forever with her. “
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P.s. this was NOT their actual wedding. It was a lifestyle photo shoot.

#blacklesbians #blacklesbiansofinstagram #blacklesbiansrock #qwoc #lgbt #loveislove
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