#BlackLesbians, what do you do when SHE wants sex more than you do? Should you break up? Should you open your relationship? Does it mean she doesn’t find you attractive? Does it mean she’s cheating? Is one person destined to always feel DEPRIVED and REJECTED? # Mismatched sex drives are common in all relationships. But how exactly do you handle it? Sex therapists Jeanae Hopgood and Lena Queen will share their professional opinion on how to best handle this common relationship concern. # Jeanae Hopgood is a trained marriage and family therapist as well as clinical sexologist and sex educator. Professor Hopgood focuses on black womyn, healthy sexuality, empowerment, sex positivity, feminine health, infertility, perinatal loss and LGBTQ+ issues. # Lena Queen is an intersectional LGBTQAI+ and poly-supportive life coach, psychotherapist and kink-aware sex therapist. She specializes in the areas of gender identity, sexuality, sexual wellness/pleasure, depression, anxiety, PTSD/Trauma and relationship wellness. For the last 15 years, she has supported her clients in their efforts to create healthy relationships with themselves and others.
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“We had two cars, vacations, home renovations, parties and so much fun! We were lesbian jet-setting. We often joked about how we felt sorry for couples who didn’t have what we have. Instead of being grateful and humble we were sometimes assholes. And then she got pregnant and I didn’t.” - Have you ever been there #blacklesbians? - Read more on the blog at www.blacklesbianlovelab.com. https://www.instagram.com/p/BxkINqgl7_I/?igshid=2ejejsh8t1um
Sandi was no stranger to domestic violence. She was born into it. So when it happened in her romantic relationships, it was normal. #BlackLesbians, what has been your experience with intimate partner violence? - Sandi will be joining us on Friday, May 10, 2019 at 7 p.m. EST for a Facebook LIVE discussion about ending domestic abuse in black lesbian relationships.
Benir and Adameka’s story represents a classic tale of missed opportunities. The Atlanta pair had six opportunities to meet over three years. But none of those times were right until one night, fate stepped while they were on Facebook. - Check out their story and the proposal video. - http://bit.ly/BenirAdameka - - #blacklesbians #lesbians #blacklesbianlovelab #queer #qwoc #queerwomenofcolor, #lgbtq #girlswholikegirls #instagay #wlw #blacklesbiansofinstagram #lovewins #loveislove #blacklove #femme4femmes https://www.instagram.com/blacklesbianlovelab/p/Bw4gpX8FMgm/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=16dls7q3qyvrg
#BlackLesbians do you believe masculine women have a more difficult time in the workplace? We chatted with Dr. Sharrica Miller, a college professor, to get her take. - - She will be sharing more of her story as part of a panel discussion in the Black Lesbian Love Lab Private Community. Wanna catch the replay or participate live tomorrow, Sunday, March 31, 2019 at 7 p.m. EST? Subscribe to our membership at community.blacklesbianlovelab.com
“Almost 1.5 years ago I met a woman, Britney Brown. One who helped change the trajectory of my life. I wasn’t looking to be partnered, but she showed up anyway. Yesterday, as I was doing yoga, I realized I still have MUCH healing to do. -As that thought crossed my mind, I also thought how fortunate I am to have a partner like Brittney while I am doing the work. Especially because she’s doing her work too. It ain’t about the gifts, or trips or SM stuff. -Gentle when I’m anxious and kind when I’m depressed. She reminds me that I am worth it, when all of the limiting beliefs - from my past - tell me I’m not. -Together we are learning healthy, and I’m here for the glow up(s)… individually & collectively! We’re a team & I couldn’t ask for a better life partner. I love her!!!”~Raquiiba M Williams Bolton
