#bondage question
There’ve been a slew of anonymous asks recently, so I’ve answered them all together. If you asked a question as an anon, it’s probably here, if not answered before!
Under the break: questions about beginner bondage, self tying, eeling, orgasms, and more ♥
Anonymous asked: Hey I was wondering if you had many self-bondage tutorials
Hazel: Yes! I made a post here featuring a few very nice ones.
Anonymous asked: Hi there! I was wondering if I could ask about some easy harnesses and ties for newbies? I would love to get into bondage and was hoping there was a way I could work up to the more complex ties. Your blog is incredibly helpful and lovely by the way! Thank you so much for everything you do!
Hazel: Our pleasure! Honestly all ties take a certain amount of practice to master, but here are a few that don’t require complex knots and have the least steps:
Anonymous asked: Do you have any ties that are extremely restricting and allow for no movement? Like ones that bind the arms, legs, torso, maybe go around the neck, etc. Basically tie up as much of the body as possible? And also very hard to escape from? Thank you in advance, and your blog and shoots are lovely, have a wonderful day you beautiful person! ^w^
Hazel: I’m definitely not an expert on “eeling” (trying to squirm out of bondage), but my best suggestion would be to use wrist cuffs at intervals up the arms and legs.
While the hog tie is definitely hard to get out of, it doesn’t “feel” restrictive in my opinion, but the multiple wraps of the cuffs sure do. Any eelers out there with better suggestions, please comment <33
*It’ll take time to cut it all off if something goes wrong. So go slow, stay alert, and be super safe, okay?
Anonymous asked: What are your favorite things to wear?
Hazel: PINK! Anything pink, white, and frilly. I also like cute prints (stars and hearts and so forth), as well as Hello Kitty and Sailor Moon stuff. (o´▽`o) Oh, and I would never say no to Agent Provocateur lingerie, but that would be under what I’m wearing~
Anonymous asked: A lot of your stuff is in Japanese as well, and it made me wonder what languages you speak/write?
Hazel: Just the two. I’m actually super slow at learning stuff. Even English still has so many mysteries (＞﹏＜)
Anonymous asked: I just wanted to say your photos are excellent and I really appreciate your educational tidbits too.
Hazel: Thank you! I’m always so happy & touched when people take the time to say stuff like this
Anonymous asked: I have a lot of questions, however I first have to say love the blog. So anyways both my boyfriend and I (gay couple) like bondage, however there isn’t much on gay bondage, so if you can, can you link me to anything? Or do you have any tips for us?
Hazel: I’ve had a few questions about male bondage, but I’ve never found anything specific (readers, please comment if you have, I’ll even make a post just for that!)
But, on the bright side, all our tutorials are unisex. The only bondage I’ve seen that doesn’t work on all body types are those that rely on an ample bust to support the rig.
My only tip would be to try out anything you can- you never know what feels good until you’ve been tied up in it (^_−)☆
Anonymous asked: hey so ive been sexually active for a while, but i dont know if ive ever had an orgasm or not?? as a fellow female, is there anything you could tell me that might help me figure that out?
Hazel: Hm, how to describe an orgasm… it’s like a rising wave of pleasure, that hits a peak (or multiple peaks) and will subside a bit from there. I’m tempted to say if you don’t know, you probably haven’t had one - but it may have just bee a “light” orgasm, for lack of a better word. There’s definitely an “oh my god” moment.
If you don’t have any vibrating toys, I would suggest trying some out. Those tend to be guaranteed orgasm makers. If you can’t get ahold of an official toy, a vibrating toothbrush works just as well. Try applying light pressure to your clitoris, gradually getting harder as sensation increases.
Hopefully some of this is at least a bit helpful! Thank you so much for your interest & support everybody
♥ Hazel
