#brain tumor
Life Comes at You Fast: Please Help.
I recently found out that one of my dearest friends has a brain tumor. He’s getting it removed this week, but he’s only 29 and the whole thing is just wildly depressing and honestly completely fucking shocking. He’s on Medicaid, and he won’t be able to work for at least a month after his surgery — plus we have no idea if they’ll be able to remove the whole tumor and if he’ll need chemo and radiation when all is said and done. The harsh reality is that this could be the first of several surgeries.
Hugh, my buddy, is one of the nicest people I’ve ever met. He was there for me when I had COVID, literally the only person who visited me when I was sick. He spent most of 2020 unemployed and volunteering to delivery groceries to high risk folks in our neighborhood while also organizing for Black Lives Matter.
His activism, open-heartedness, and die-hard baseball fanaticism make him an easy guy to love. He’s also a charming, sane member of the kink community and always ready with a story or advice. His friendship means the world to me.
All this to say, there’s a GoFundMe for Hugh and I know it’s a lot to ask, but every little bit counts and if you might be willing to donate what you can to a stranger I would be forever grateful. And no matter what, I hope you might share this post for me and for Hugh. I hate that America is the kind of place where this is necessary, but such is the world we live in.
Hugh’s GoFundMe.
bumping again <3 pls boost if you can.
May: Brain Cancer Awareness Month
The most common symptoms of brain cancer are:
- Headaches
- Seizures
- Difficulty thinking/speaking
- Personality changes
- Tingling/Stiffness on one side of the body
- Loss of balance
- Vision changes
- Memory loss
- Nausea
- Disorientation
- Muscle weakness
- Anxiety/Depression
These are not all the symptoms of brain cancer, and brain cancer is NOT the only cause of these symptoms. If you suddenly or frequently experience any of these, go to your doctor so they can determine the cause.
[ID: An illustration of the side view of the human brain, with each lobe colored differently, with the most common symptoms arranged to follow the shape of the brain/lobes. The lobe-specific symptoms of brain cancer are in list formats outside the brain and correlate in color to the lobes. Frontal lobe: Personality changes, Increased aggression/irritation, Apathy, Weakness on one side of the body, Loss of smell, Difficulty walking, and Vision / Speech problems. Parietal lobe: Difficulty speaking/understanding, Problems reading/writing, and Loss of feeling in part of the body. Occipital lobe: Vision problems. Meninges: Headache, Nausea/vomiting, Sight problems, and Neck pain. Pituitary Gland: Lack of energy, Weight gain, Mood swings, High blood pressure, Diabetes, Enlarged hands/feet, Irregular/infrequent periods, and Infertility/impotence. Temporal lobe: Forgetting words, Short-term memory loss, and Seizures (often associated with strange smells/feelings). Brain Stem: Issues with coordination, Eyelid/mouth droops to one side, Difficulty swallowing, Difficulty speaking, and Double vision. Cerebellum: Issues with coordination, Uncontrolled eye movement, Nausea/vomiting, Neck stiffness, and Dizziness. Spinal Cord: Pain, Numbness, Weakness in legs/arms, Loss of bladder/bowel control, and Difficulty walking. End description.]