#cunninglus

pie0:

I got the question in my ask box again. But I wanted it a place I could link to easier in the future so doing it as a text.

Think I’ve posted an answer to this before but there’s a few things to remember.

• Cumming should never be the ultimate goal. The ultimate goal should be to have fun. Doing otherwise puts pressure on the girl. If you manage to make her cum, great. But if not, then there’s next time.
• It’s a lot of fun, for both sides. Enjoy it. It’s definitely not a chore.
• If you’re unsure what to do, communicate. Let the girl help you guide you. She knows what she likes and every girl is different.
• Teasing is important.
• Every girl is different. I said that before, but some don’t come easier than others. Don’t sweat it.
• Making a woman writhe in ecstasy is the most rewarding thing you can do

A lot of guys go straight for the clit, lick it side to side for 10 minutes and go “Why haven’t you come yet.” 

The truth is you want to start out teasing. When you first get down there, enjoy it. Assess the situation, so to speak. Make sure she’s comfortable as you do. Give her compliments - mean them too. A girl can be incredibly sensitive and nervous about many things to do with her pussy (people are insecure.)

Start by kissing her thighs, avoiding any pleasure spots. Working your way up, get closer to her pussy. When you get there, lick from her from the bottom (or asshole if she’s comfy) to the top of her pussy. Avoid her clit to start.

Tease her - build it up until all she wants is what you’re not giving her. She’ll scowl, she’ll yank your hair and resist slightly, giving in by using the back of your tongue to lick it. Her clit can be incredibly sensitive - you don’t want to use the tip of your tongue straight away - it can be overload.

Suck it, gently, lick from the bottom of her pussy to the top again, then stop and work on her clit. The biggest thing you have to remember here is not to be repetitive. If you lick from side to side, there’s less excitement. Go side to side, stop, go diagonal. Always make sure to not repeat the same count each time. Make it so she never knows what to expect. Catch her off guard and make her breathless.

Finger her too. If your tongue is sore, stop, finger her for a bit. Rub her. Then go back to it. Don’t hurt yourself too bad (i’ve had many a repetitive tongue strain, it sucks.)

Ultimately, both of you have fun and enjoy yourselves.