#sex tips

SEX MUST-HAVES!!!

Okay so i get a Bunch of asks about lube and what makes sex feel good so here is my must have list for sexy time!!!

- a bottle of water. I’m a squirter so i get crazy dehydrated. Trust me on this one

- Condoms!!!!! Personally, I love ONE condoms or Trojan Magnums. Do not, I repeat, DO NOT use the ultra thin shit. It will break under vigorous sex. That stuff is fucking scary

- Lube!! No matter how wet you are or what his size is, lube is never ever ever a bad idea. My favorites are h2o Sliquid (water-based), Wicked Anal Jelly (water-based, not just for anal), and Pur Silicone lube (safe for condoms)

- A vibrator. For me, cumming isn’t necessary but seeing as i don’t get off from partner stimulation, it’s good to have. I have a basic one from Doc Johnson

- Lastly, COMMUNICATION!!!!! You cannot have good sex if you aren’t talking through is or laughing or moaning. Lots of people love verbalizing, I’m sure he does too!!

|Anitta and Fred de Palma, During the recording of the music video for “Un Altro Ballo”.

aries - “to achieve sex-goddess status, you have to truly master his man bits.”
taurus - “chew a small piece of mango then take him in your mouth.”
gemini - "hold his penis in one hand and lightly slap it with the other.”
cancer - "feed each other ice cream in the dark. not being able to see means more spilling, which means more licking up the mess.”
leo - “draw an attention-grabbing circle around your nipples using rhinestones.”
virgo - “during oral, suck in air as you go down and blow it out as you go up.”
libra - "receive a butterfly kiss of your breasts.”
scorpio - "rent a horror movie and play it while you have sex. if they hear any screams, they’ll assume it’s the movie.”
sagittarius - "not ecofriendly? it could be a sign that he’ll trash your relationship too.”
capricorn - “tickle his feet with your nipples.”
aquarius - "cook dinner topless, apply a little tomato sauce to your nipple.”
pisces - “mix one tablespoon of saliva with one tablespoon of water to stretch the spit.”

what do you wanna know?

astrodickology:

To all my teenage girls who don’t know:

Just cause he wants to fuck you doesn’t mean he loves you

Just cause you have sex with him, doesnt mean he loves you, or respects or emotionally cares for you

Having sex with a guy doesn’t mean he’s gonna stay with you or respect you

Losing your virginity isnt the end all be all of everything, your not “giving a part of yourself ” to him. You were whole before him.

Just FYI

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pie0:

I got the question in my ask box again. But I wanted it a place I could link to easier in the future so doing it as a text.

Think I’ve posted an answer to this before but there’s a few things to remember.

• Cumming should never be the ultimate goal. The ultimate goal should be to have fun. Doing otherwise puts pressure on the girl. If you manage to make her cum, great. But if not, then there’s next time.
• It’s a lot of fun, for both sides. Enjoy it. It’s definitely not a chore.
• If you’re unsure what to do, communicate. Let the girl help you guide you. She knows what she likes and every girl is different.
• Teasing is important.
• Every girl is different. I said that before, but some don’t come easier than others. Don’t sweat it.
• Making a woman writhe in ecstasy is the most rewarding thing you can do

A lot of guys go straight for the clit, lick it side to side for 10 minutes and go “Why haven’t you come yet.” 

The truth is you want to start out teasing. When you first get down there, enjoy it. Assess the situation, so to speak. Make sure she’s comfortable as you do. Give her compliments - mean them too. A girl can be incredibly sensitive and nervous about many things to do with her pussy (people are insecure.)

Start by kissing her thighs, avoiding any pleasure spots. Working your way up, get closer to her pussy. When you get there, lick from her from the bottom (or asshole if she’s comfy) to the top of her pussy. Avoid her clit to start.

Tease her - build it up until all she wants is what you’re not giving her. She’ll scowl, she’ll yank your hair and resist slightly, giving in by using the back of your tongue to lick it. Her clit can be incredibly sensitive - you don’t want to use the tip of your tongue straight away - it can be overload.

Suck it, gently, lick from the bottom of her pussy to the top again, then stop and work on her clit. The biggest thing you have to remember here is not to be repetitive. If you lick from side to side, there’s less excitement. Go side to side, stop, go diagonal. Always make sure to not repeat the same count each time. Make it so she never knows what to expect. Catch her off guard and make her breathless.

Finger her too. If your tongue is sore, stop, finger her for a bit. Rub her. Then go back to it. Don’t hurt yourself too bad (i’ve had many a repetitive tongue strain, it sucks.)

Ultimately, both of you have fun and enjoy yourselves.

I am an exhibitionist. Always have been. I love displaying myself as much as I can. It’s just my particular brand of kink. I’ve written about it before in other posts. I like to compare sexual desire to fire. Not only because that’s what it feels like to me, but because of another reason. Fire is dangerous. If you have it properly controlled it can do all kinds of wonderful and useful things. It…

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