#dayoot
Ibn `Umar [رضي الله عنه] narrated that Allāh’s Messenger [ﷺ] said:
“There are three persons to whom Allah (Blessed and Exalted be He) has forbidden Jannah (Paradise): the one addicted to Khamr (intoxicants), the impious son, and the Dayyuth who does not deny Zina committed by his female household.”
Also, Al-Tabarany related on the authority of `Ammar ibn Yasir (may Allah be pleased with him):
The Messenger of Allah [ﷺ] said:
“Three (kinds of) persons will never be admitted into Jannah: the Dayyuth, the mannish woman, and the one addicted to Khamr.
The people asked: We know those who are addicted to Khamr, but what about the Dayyuth? He replied: He who does not care who comes in to the female members of his family.
They asked: Who is the mannish woman? He answered: A woman who imitates men.
On the authority of Malik ibn Uhaymir [رضي الله عنه] who said that he heard the Messenger of Allah [ﷺ] said:
“Allāh shall not accept from Al-Sukur on the Day of Resurrection any repentance or ransom.
We said: O Messenger of Allah! What is Al-Sukur? He said: He who allows men to come in to their female household.”
Accordingly, the first above-mentioned Hadith shows that the term “Dayyuth” is used to describe any person who does not deny Zina committed by any woman in his charge, whether his wife, daughter, sister, and so on, and whether it is an act of Zina or a means that leads to it, such as revealing `Awrah (parts of the body that must be covered in public) in the presence of non-Mahrams (not a spouse or unmarriageable relatives), being alone with them, wearing perfume when going out, and other means which provoke Fitnah (temptation) and corruption.
Abdullaah ibn ‘Umar(rA) reported that the Prophet (saw) said:
“Three people will not enter paradise, and Allaah will not look to them on the Day of Judgement: the one who is disobedient to his parents, the woman who imitates men and the ad-Dayooth.” (Ahmad)
Ad-Dayooth is the man who permits women for whom he is responsible (eg: mother, wife, sister etc.) to engage in illicit sexual relations, or to display their beauty to strange men, or to dress in an immodest manner(e.g. shorts, tight pants, skirts…), …
Note: **SPECIALLY FOR MY MOTHERS AND SISTERS* — For your own good, for your own better ENDING, For Allah’s sake read and understand the Qur’an and the Sunnah and Know that wearing clothes that reveal parts of your body is HARAAM and it falls in the same category as what PROSTITUTES do, (as above), “displaying your beauty to strange men, thereby stimulating their sexual desires”. Strange men are all Non-Mehram men that include your cousins and bro-in laws as well. For Allah’s sake, know what you are doing, realize, make sincere tawba (repentance) and refrain in the future.
**BROTHERS** — You fall in category 3 (as above) as you are PERMITTING your mothers, wives and sisters show and display their beauty garment to the entire creation. May Allah SWT bless us with right knowledge and keep us all safe from the whispers of shaytan.
Ameen
