Tell us about yourself: I am 27 and I am happily married. Living with my husband in a tiny apartment
Hello James, I am here for an update. It has been a month since my last confession. Since then a few things have changed but a few things have not. I somehow stuck to my promise of not having another orgasm. Although it wasn’t without help.
My amazing loving husband started to learn the signs of when I am close to my orgasm. He started to slow down or even stopped. Recently I have gotten very sensitive down there. So much so that we found it difficult to have sex without me going over the edge. It both feels amazing and frustrating to us. Telling him to pull out because I am about to cum feels like I failed as a woman and as a wife. But my incredible husband instead told me that this is just another hurdle that we as a couple have to learn to overcome. He is amazing isn’t he?
Anyways, eventually we did learn.
Thank you
Jessica
He does indeed sound amazing, as do you! What a wonderful update to your confession, thank you.
I think, like everyone reading this, you probably know what the solution to this problem is, Jessica. If your pussy is simply too sensitive for him to fuck, then it’s time to become an anal only wife.
Not that this is how you present it to him. You need to make sure it’s something you want, and spend some time practicing with a safe dildo or plug, preparing yourself and learning to enjoy or at least tolerate play back there. And then, you either need to offer it to him as a surprise, perhaps a birthday or anniversary, or date night gift. Or, when you next plan to have sex, make sure you’re prepared, cleaned, lubricated, ready to suggest ‘would you like to fuck me in the ass instead, darling? Then you don’t have to worry about me cumming and won’t have to hold back.’
No matter how much preparation you’ve done, it’ll probably still be something of a shock if it’s new to you. Here’s where you need to do a little acting for the first few times, perhaps. Telling him it feels better than you imagined, that you like it, that it only reinforces your denial and makes it even more powerful. These things are usually true, but just take a little time to appreciate.
You might hate it, in which case, of course, don’t continue. But many find their initial ‘act’ soon becomes reality. That your ass becomes his hole of preference. That your pussy is saved for the most special of occasions.
It sounds to me, just the kind of gift that such an amazing husband deserves. You just wait and see the look on his face when you offer it to him. It’ll be worth all the frustration and desperation it’s going to cause you, I promise.
i just looooove the idea of being conditioned to be turned on by something fairly common…every time you edge me, play a specific song or light a specific candle or make me wear a specific perfume. then just play the song randomly, light the candle one day because it smells nice, ask me to wear that perfume for our date, leaving me a shaking, dripping mess
The ropes kept her legs spread, so she couldn’t stop you doing whatever you wanted with the magic wand. ‘Don’t stop until you break my mind,’ she asked before you began. You smiled, stroking her bare leg. 'Oh darling, breaking it is just the start. I won’t stop until there’s no mind left at all.’
