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This is the first of a series of small games to play during a session.

In this game she’s on top and she do that movement at constant speed. Whatever his reaction is, she must never change the beat. The duration will be determined by luck. Have a dice near you for this game.

At first throw do 50 strokes and throw the dice (For all the game, his job is to count the strokes!)

1. 30 more strokes and throw the dice again
2. 35 more strokes and throw the dice again
3. 40 more strokes and throw the dice again
4. 30 more strokes and it’s over
5. 20 more ultra slow strokes and it’s over
6. No more strokes, it’s over

Will it be enough for him to cum? If he is lucky probably, if not he will be denied!

In the first day of this game, her goal is to give him as many complete orgasms as possible. Yes, it can be a good way to start a tease and denial game!

Let’s say for example he had 7 full orgasms during that day.

He will have to wait 7 days before being allowed any sexual stimulation on his sex, he is on total denial for this period. After that he will have to make her orgasm 7 times before he can receive an actual “release”, during this time she will have to tease his cock and edge him as often as possible until she had all her required orgasms. Once she received all her required orgasms, he can start to receive his 7 ruined orgasms. He will receive one ruined orgasm a day until he receive all his ruined pleasure. Of course, those orgasms should be frustrating and obtained after a lot of teasing.

Once his denial, the orgasm he owe her and his ruined orgasms are achieved, he can receive an actual orgasm (or she can keep on teasing him, it’s her choice)

First he must be fully naked and stay on his back without moving. She must stimulate his sex until he is rock hard. After that she will tease his cock until he leak his first drop of precum. Once it’s done, she must wait until he lose his erection before doing anything else. He cannot touch his sex at any point. If she’s mean (or if he is too horny to lose his erection) she can help him with some ice.

This game can be a good way to start slowly with tease and denial. In this game she will not decide how long he will be stimulated or if she will make him cum or not, it will depend on his luck.

Once he lose his erection, she will do the exact same thing again until he leak precum.

After that the real game of luck start. She will throw a dice and do the following action.

1. Wait for him to lose his erection and start again.
2. Tease him again until he is on the edge and wait for him to lose his erection. Start again
3. Wait for him to lose his erection, pleasure is over for him today
4. Wait for him to lose his erection, tease him again until he have precum and throw the dice of orgasmic luck
5. Tease him until he is on the edge of orgasm and wait for him to lose his erection. Pleasure is over for him today
6. Throw the dice of orgasmic luck

Dice of orgasmic luck: (Please, don’t show him the result)

1. Ruin his orgasm on his body
2. Ruin his orgasm in your hand
3. Wait for him to lose his erection one last time and tease him to a ruined orgasm
4. Full orgasm on his body
5. Wait for him to lose his erection then tell him that he have to wait until tomorrow to receive a full orgasm blowjob
6. Wait for him to lose his erection then give him a full orgasm in your hand

The game is as simple as it’s title.

He start the game fully tied and she can do whatever she want to tease him and make him beg to cum as quickly as possible. As soon as he is tied, she start a timer and begin to tease him. He is never allowed to see the timer. She can do ANYTHING she want to tease him during this game. The game end only when he beg for an orgasm or if she make him cum or ruin his orgasm by accident (he don’t have to tell if he is about to cum, it’s her job to see if he is about to)

The end of the game:

As I said, the game end if he cum or if he beg. It doesn’t change anything.

If he ended the game by begging, this are the consequences:

• If he beg in the first 30minutes, he will get a ruined orgasm and 2weeks of cock touching denial
• If he beg between 30minutes and 1hour, he will get a ruined orgasm and he will receive 2weeks of orgasm denial
• If he beg between 1hour and 1h30, he will receive a full orgasm and he will be denied orgasm for 1week
• If he beg between 1h30 and 2hours, he will receive a full orgasm and 3days of intense tease and denial
• If he beg after 2hours, he will receive a full orgasm and unlimited orgasm for 48hours (at the moment of his choice and how he want to cum)

If the game ended by an orgasm for him because she made him cum accidentally (he didn’t beg), the roles will be reversed next time. He will tease her and she will beg!

whathappensinvacations:

You are in couple and you like tease and denial? (Or you have never tried tease and denial and you want to try something new sexually during your next vacations?)

This game is meant for a 1 week vacation, the best situation would be a beach vacation in a resort. (An adult resort would be even better)

In this game she will have to try many different activities in the following list. In exchange he will accept to be teased during all the vacation and denied until the last night. Why being denied during all this vacation? To be easier to tease, to be more receptive and to be hornier than ever!

Her goal is to perform as many challenges as possible in the following list. She will have to perform challenges in each category (remember, she must push herself and do things she would maybe not have done if she wasn’t challenged to do it or if she wasn’t in vacation).

The challenges

Visual teasing in private (At least 2 challenges)

• Masturbate in front of him
• Perform a striptease
• Wear sexy lingerie as often as possible
• Shower and shave your pussy in front of him
• Ask him to stay immobile and tease him mercilessly without reaching his sex(not even once).
• Ask him to take the 10 best pictures of girls he find attractive on the resort (even better if they are dressed sexy or topless) and watch the pictures with him. Create sexual/sensual stories about the girls he took in picture(about their sex life, about what they would do to him, about their fetishes… find arousing ideas!), make sure he think about those stories every time he will see those girls again!

Sexual activity in private (At least 1 challenge everyday)

* Remember he cannot orgasm before the last night

• Pussy eating (obviously and as often as possible)
• Handjob with edging
• Ruin one of his orgasm (it doesn’t count as an orgasm, don’t do it more than once in the week… you want to keep him horny)
• Mutual masturbation, you both please yourself in front of each other. She control when he must stop
• Tied and tease (He must be tied and teased to the edge of orgasm several times)
• Blowjob with edging
• Cock teasing through clothing
• Real sex (It’s easier if she is on top and control everything)
• 69
• Dry humping
• Slow cock teasing using only the tongue and finger tips
• Ask him to give you a massage with a happy ending for you
• Ok this list could be much more longer… do whatever you want sexually to be pleased and to tease him without letting him have a full orgasm!

Sexual teasing in public soft (At least 4 challenges)

• Dirty dancing, he must be hard and horny and you must feel it
• Make sure he get an erection while you are together in the water
• Making out in public (I don’t mean small kisses… I mean french kisses for a long time sensually with hand play)
• Play with his sex outdoor until he is hard (hide yourself somewhere, use a beach towel, go to a changing room). It must be quick
• In the same hour he must grab your ass,boobs and pussy (skin against skin, not through clothing) while you are in a public area
• Have one of the sexual activity in the previous category in your room with the curtains open.
• Wear a short skirt with no panties during the evening. Make sure he can see your sex and ass a couple times
• Wear a white top with no bra. Make sure that it’s a little see through and we can clearly see your nipples through it
• Dirty talking in public area, he must be hard when you are done (restaurant,beach,bar)
• Stay fully naked in your room with the curtains open while you are not too far from the window (You could change clothes, watch outside, do whatever you want but you must be fully naked!)
• Have a sexual activity in your hotel room and be very noisy. Make sure that anyone in a nearby room will hear you.
• Talk about this challenge to another couple in the resort, give them a lot of details and make sure they want to try it!

Obvious visual teasing in public (At least 2 challenges)

• Sunbath topless (If you usually sunbath topless, it doesn’t count as a realized challenge)
• “Accidentally”  lose your bikini bottom while going out of the water and take a long time to put it back on while you are out of the water
• On the beach spread your bikini bottom so your pussy lips or pubis must be exposed for at least 15 minutes. Make it look accidental
• Go in the hotel corridor fully naked for at least 1 minute at a time where it’s possible to be caught.(Not quietly at 4 in the morning)
• Arrive clothed at the beach, Strip hidden by a beach towel to put your bikini on. You must drop the towel and the bikini on the floor “accidentally” while you are fully naked. At this moment you must put your bikini back without using the towel anymore
• Have a drink fully naked on your room balcony
• Have a sexual activity in your hotel room right in front of your window or on your balcony. He must be edged at least once and she must orgasm.
• Have an orgasm outdoor (You choose how,when and where)
• Wear a short skirt with no panties and ask a guy to take a picture of you and your boyfriend while you are seated together. Make sure to spread your legs enough so we can see your pussy in the picture. The guy who will take the picture will probably not realize what is happening, but he will surely like the show
• Have sex in front of another couple (remember he cannot orgasm, maybe ruin his orgasm if you don’t want people to know about your little game)

The last night orgasm (1 challenge… except if you want to make him cum more than once during this last vacation night!)

• Have sex on the beach
• Have a very long teasing session (he must beg for orgasm many times) before giving him his well deserved release
• Do something you have never done sexually with him (for example swallowing or anal sex). Ask him what sexual activity would make him the happier
• Have sex in front of another couple
• Do him a sensual massage with a happy ending
• Do any of the previous categories sexual activity… but make it end with his orgasm 

This vacation will give him the ultimate orgasm and the best week of his life!

This game will last 5 weeks. Each week will have different rules, some weeks will be harder for him, some other weeks will give her a lot of work! Each week will end with an orgasm for him for a “brand new start” before the next week. He is never allowed an orgasm during the week, only at the end of it.

First week:

During the first week of the game, he is denied the right to see her naked at any point. He cannot see her pussy or her tits. Her ass can be seen, only if she is wearing at least a thong. There is no other rules for the week. She can do whatever she want, but he must never see those body parts. She can use that to tease him (wear sexy lingerie, blindfold him and strip naked…) and you both can have as much sex as you want. Of course, no orgasm or ruined for him before the end of the week. His end of the week orgasm must be performed following all the rules of this week.

Second week:

Nothing but tongue. During this week you both are not allowed to touch your partner sex, ass or tits with nothing but your tongue. She must have many orgasms and he must be teased a lot using her tongue. At the end of the week his orgasm must be, of course, with her tongue.

Third week:

This week will be challenging for her as well. During this week you must do like if you were a young virgin couple. The sex must never be shown and all the touching must be through the clothing. No direct contact with the sex. You must have a lot of foreplay (boobs touching and licking, hugging, kissing) and keep your hands out of your partner panties! At the end of this week, his orgasm must be achieved following those rules. It means, she won’t put her hands in his underwear.

Fourth week:

This week will be very frustrating for him. He is not allowed to touch her at all. By not touching, I mean nothing! No kissing, no hands holding or boobs grabbing! Of course, she is allowed to touch him as much as she want, she can kiss him, she can put his hands somewhere on her body but he will not be allowed to move his hands. Every touch she will receive, will be fully controlled by her. During this week she must use that to drive him insane (masturbate in front of him, kiss him everywhere, put his hands on her thigh while she’s moaning). It means the only orgasms she will receive this week will be via masturbating. At the end of the week, his orgasms must be achieved using those rules, and she must be sure to make him want to touch her during all this session

Fifth and last week:

For this last week he is not allowed to receive any stimulation on his sex. He cannot touch it, and she won’t touch it. Her goal: Make sure his sex is the only thing in the world he can think about! She must tease him very close to his sex without ever reaching it. She can orgasm how and when she want (if it doesn’t mean using his penis!). At the end of the week, his final orgasm will be something he will beg to receive. For at least one hour, she will tease him without touching his sex and try to make him cum without any sexual stimulation. She will surely fail, but he will be nuts at the end of this hour. Right after, she will have to make him cum being very,very,very slow and gentle with his sex (very slow licking, barely touching his skin with her finger, use a feather on his dick). By the time he will orgasm, it should be an incredible release.

Share with us how it felt and what part was the hardest/ your favourite.

Most people think tease and denial is about female domination. They think that you have to serve her,obey her in order to have a small chance to cum from time to time. This might fit in the lifestyle of some submissive men, but it doesn’t fit me at all.

My opinion of tease and denial is that you must both be happy with this. The first thing to do (and the hardest) is to speak to your wife/girlfriend about your fantasy and what it’s really about. For me tease and denial is about being horny all the time. Think about the moment when you are just on the edge of orgasm, how you feel and how you never want this to end. With tease and denial, you can live this moment much longer than most men. At first most women will say you are crazy and won’t understand why the hell you don’t want to cum like a normal human being! Why? That’s the point of orgasm denial. She must understand that she’s not denying your pleasure, she’s just keeping your pleasurable state for much longer. I’m pretty sure that if you play this as a couple, she will understand very quickly why you want that when she will see your reaction. Everything that she will be doing will tease you, please you. Just a few words in your ears will give you a very hard erection! At first, this game (because in my opinion, this is a game) should take a slow start, it means short denial periods. If the short term is what fit the most, good for you! But after a while most people playing this game will need more and more… they don’t want to lose this ache to cum!

Having an orgasm is great, in fact it’s very pleasurable and we all want that. But waiting to get it give you much more pleasure. If you have sex and you cum after 15minutes, it will be good… you will cum and you will be released. But if you have sex for 30minutes and don’t cum, it will be hard at first… all your body will say I WANT TO CUM! But it’s not really what you want because you know that you are craving this feeling, you also know that when you haven’t cum for many days and you have been teased during this time, your orgasm will be much better and pleasurable. The more you wait for something and crave for it, the better it is when you finally get it. For example, if you want a nice car and you work hard to get it, you will have a greater satisfaction when you will finally get it after a long wait than if you simply had the cash for it and buy it right away. In both situation, you have the car of your dream… but if it’s too easy to get it, you will not be as proud and satisfied when you finally get it. (Yes I’m comparing a car with an orgasm, but I think you get the point)

Look at this picture

I’m pretty sure that when you are in this situation, the last thing on earth you want is this moment to end! With tease and denial it’s possible! If this picture is taken in a normal sex context, she will strip, get on top of him or maybe do him a blowjob… but in the end in less than an hour (probably 20minutes) it will be over with an orgasm. But in a tease and denial context, this could only be a prelude, you have no idea what is going to happen next. Maybe she will keep stripping and ask you to eat her until she orgasm, maybe she will masturbate in front of you while you are only allowed to watch, maybe she will suck you for a couple of minutes… or maybe she’s just giving you a preview of what might happen next and she’s putting her panties back. In this situation, one thing is sure, you will be hornier after she’s done than you were before. You will be eager for the next session, and everything that she will do or say will tease you until next time. Ok, you will not have the 5seconds orgasm and the release… but you will have an endless sex session. From the end of this session until the next one, the only thing you will think about is how hot she is, how good she smells, how you would like to be inside her and cum! You will be eager for the next time, and when this next time finally happen, it’s going to be even better.

Not knowing what will happen next is probably the most exciting thing about tease and denial. There is no sexual routine. She’s in control of most of the sexual activities and all she want is to find new way to tease you and always push your excitation level. In this context, she’s also more sexually confident because she know that all you can think about is her. She feel desired, beautiful and she also feel all the sexual power she get… which is very arousing for many women. She have the control so if she want an orgasm, all she have to do is ask you to eat her. She know that you want it and she also know that she is not “forced” to give you something in return. Let’s be honest, in a normal relation, if he eat her pussy, he is expecting something in return. With tease and denial he will obviously be very happy if he get something in return, but if he don’t he will be a little bit sexually frustrated, but he will be hornier than he was before and he will be waiting for next time with a boner in his pants! Tease and denial is about living in a post orgasmic state, I mean always on the edge of orgasm or pleasure but not over it!

Of course this game can be very complex and can be done in so many different ways, what is important is to be happy with it. Many people will add ruined orgasm to the game. It’s a way to release some pressure, but not let him have the big O! After a ruined orgasm he will lose his erection and he will be able to sleep… but he will still crave for the real orgasm and the real release. The ruined orgasm allow you to play longer and to make him wait for the real release for a longer time. Why wait longer? Because like I said before, it’s better! A ruined orgasm or a denial is something very powerful for her, when she say no or wait or simply ruin his orgasm, she feel a huge rush of sexual power because she know what kind of power she have in her hands.(Or maybe in her mouth). She should never feel bad about denying the orgasm, she should feel good because she’s allowing him to keep his pleasure and arousal level still high. She will feel good because she know that he will be very receptive to any sexual or sensual thing she will do or say until his next orgasm!

Whatever you do, the most important part is to ENJOY! Tease and denial is about pushing yourself in the ultimate quest of arousal and the ultimate orgasm. Of course, after a denial it’s not easy and she must be there to motivate him… but both of you know that it’s not really a denial, but this was a prelude to the next session!