#ruined orgasm
This is a game for beginner to try if you liked the first game.
The rules of this second game are very simple. He can ask for an orgasm whenever he want to! But, the longer he wait, the bigger the reward will be.
Her goal:
She must tease him as much as she want, she must do ANYTHING in her power for him to beg for an orgasm. But their will be no cock stimulation at all in this game. She must never touch his sex and he must please her the way she want to.
She can’t touch his cock so what are her options?
- Pussy eating
- Visual teasing (striptease,masturbation,lingerie, short skirt no underwear…)
- Tease him everywhere near his cock, he will go crazy
- Dirty talking, whispering what you would do to him if you could touch his sex…
- He can fuck you with a strap on
- Ask for a dirty massage/do him a dirty massage (no happy ending for him!)
- Watch porn/tease and denial blog/whatever turn him on with him
- You know him, find a way to drive him crazy!
His orgasm:
As soon as he ask an orgasm, a 24hour delay will start. He can’t have his orgasm now, he still need to wait 24hours…
If he ask for an orgasm the first or second day, he will have to masturbate fully naked in front of her while she is clothed or she will masturbate him as fast as she can to make him cum with almost no foreplay. His orgasm will, of course, be ruined. Plus, she must continue to tease him after the orgasm for a post orgasm torture.
If he ask for an orgasm in the third or 4th day, She will do him a good handjob. She will wear what she want and tease him as long as she want. But, he still ask for an orgasm too soon, it must be ruined on his belly or it will be a full orgasm with a post orgasm torture (her choice)
If he ask for an orgasm in the 5th day, She will do him a good blowjob. At the moment of the orgasm, she will let his cock go and ruin his orgasm.
If he ask for an orgasm in the 6th day, She will do him a great blowjob/handjob/tongue job/fucking for as long as she want and she will make him orgasm. She decide where his cum will go
If he ask for an orgasm in the 7th day, He can choose how she will tease him OR he can choose where he want to cum (face,mouth,pussy…)
If he ask fo an orgasm after the 7th day, She will tease him until he beg to cum (at least an hour of fun) and she will make him cum on her face or in her mouth.
They both know what his the consequence for asking an orgasm early or late in the game. She must do anything in her power to make him ask for an orgasm early (so he will have a ruined orgasm and will be horny again sooner) and he must do anything to resist the tease and ask for an orgasm after the 7th day so he will have a great tease and orgasm session!
This game is pretty simple, her job is simply to keep him in a never ending sexual ecstasy for a long period of time.
How to do it? By ruining his orgasms of course!
Are you a ruining orgasm expert? If not, read and practice this part before doing this game.
First thing to do, be an expert in ruining orgasm. If you are not, you must train first. In a good ruined orgasm, the stimulation should be stopped right after the no return point. If you stop too soon, it’s ok you can start again! If you stop too late, it’s over he will have a full orgasm. So whatever you do, go very slowly, enjoy the moment and watch his reaction… if you think he is about to cum, don’t take any risk stop! Before starting again wait 30 seconds, it’s the best way to avoid a full orgasm. The important part is to always go slow. Stimulating only his lubricated dick head is a good way to have full control and to read his body language. Those videos are a good example of a ruined orgasm
http://www.xvideos.com/video2609321/wife_gives_handjob_with_ruined_orgasm
This video is probably the best video to watch to know exactly how to ruin an orgasm http://teasingfun.tumblr.com/post/98904996331/my-favourite-way-to-tease-my-cock-oh-and-shes#notes
Now you think you are an expert in ruining an orgasm? Good let’s play!
All you will have to do for the next days or weeks Will be to give him AS MUCH RUINED ORGASM AS YOU CAN! A good duration for this game could be a week. First start by giving him a ruined orgasm. Maybe 2 hours later another one… and 2 hours later another one! Every orgasm will be more frustrating than the previous one, it might be even more frustrating than a denial because he will always be stimulated with always a fake release. For the duration of this game do that as often as possible… but be careful, if you make him cum without ruining it during the game, his excitation level will be very affected and the frustration will not be as bad as it could be. After a few days of this it’s time to end the game with the finale!
The finale: The stop and go ruined orgasm. In this final part, all you have to do is to ruin his orgasm than wait 1-2minutes and start again. You must be sure that he don’t lose his erection! Do that until he can’t have another orgasm or until he have a dry orgasm(no sperm), drain him as much as possible and try to beat a ruined orgasm record (4,5,6 or even more ruined orgasm in a row).
After the finale, it could be a good start to a longer than usual tease and denial period. His body will be used to create sperm very quickly for many days so the denial will be even harder (and better)after that challenge!
Days Locked - 18
Days since Last Orgasm - 26
# Of My Love’s Orgasms During This Lockup - 1
Total # Of Ruined Orgasms - 2
My Love Total Orgasms for the year - 44
My Total Orgasms for the year - 10
Total spankings for the year - 5
Last day before Locktober! I am going to request to be unlocked for a shower tonight, and then locked right back up to continue my close to 60 day orgasm free experience.
Days Locked - 11
Days since Last Orgasm - 19
# Of My Love’s Orgasms During This Lockup - 0
Total # Of Ruined Orgasms - 2
My Love Total Orgasms for the year - 43
My Total Orgasms for the year - 10
Total spankings for the year - 5
Posting a day late. The household has been sick most of the week, but we are getting better. My Love is getting her mojo back, and getting back into her “bossy” role.
Days Locked - 4
Days since Last Orgasm - 12
# Of My Love’s Orgasms During This Lockup - 0
Total # Of Ruined Orgasms - 2
My Love Total Orgasms for the year - 43
My Total Orgasms for the year - 10
Total spankings for the year - 5
Days Locked - 0
Days since Last Orgasm - 5
# Of My Love’s Orgasms During This Lockup - 0
Total # Of Ruined Orgasms - 2
My Love Total Orgasms for the year - 43
My Total Orgasms for the year - 10
Total spankings for the year - 5
My love gave me a surprise orgasm shortly after the other one, and I haven’t been locked up since.
Days Locked - 1
Days since Last Orgasm - 2
# Of My Love’s Orgasms During This Lockup - 0
Total # Of Ruined Orgasms - 2
My Love Total Orgasms for the year - 42
My Total Orgasms for the year - 9
Total spankings for the year - 5
My Love allowed my one orgasm for August. Resetting for September. Only one month until Locktober!
My First Wet Dream
It’s been over 100 days. I had my first wet dream ever last night. I had the same dream as before (it’s been on my mind a lot these last few days) only this time, My Love was teasing me, stroking me gently with one hand, while she was focusing on the other guys cock. He was getting most of her attention. She was jacking him and blowing him while I stood to the side, getting light touches. I started to cum, and that’s when I woke up.
I awoke to a weird feeling, I was cumming hands free into my underwear. I made a huge mess, it was warm and sticky, but I was still extremely turned on. It felt like a ruined orgasm. I guess after so long my body had to expel somehow.
I had to tell My Love about it this morning. I was not fully honest, I left out the cuckholding dream, but I did tell her about my accident. She knew I couldn’t help it, and said “maybe I left you for too long”. I’ll take care of you". I told her I was fine, and that I locked back up this morning. Something like that has never happened before. It was a strange experience to say the least.
Days Locked - Currently Unlocked
Days since Last Orgasm - 103
# Of My Love’s Orgasms During This Lockup - 4
Total # Of Ruined Orgasms - 3
My Love Total Orgasms for the year - 55
My Total Orgasms for the year - 10
Total spankings for the year - 6
Over one hundred days without an orgasm. That is freaking insane! I’m starting to wonder if that orgasm I had back in August is my last orgasm for the year.
Yesterday. My sub and I where having fun. He was laying on top of me and we were kissing. Soon I started to edge him. After his first edge , I took of my top so he could worship my breasts. He sucked and pulled on my nipples and it felt amazing. My moans must have driven him crazy because soon he was humping me. Edging himself on the blanked that was over the lower part of me.
I pulled him a bit closer so my penis was on my belly and edged him a bit more. When he was crazy from wanting to come. He pulled back just in time. But my penis rubbed against my belly and started to produce a ruined orgasm. He came all over my tits. When he was done. I grabbed his head and made him lick it up. Then I let him get a warm washing cloth to wash the rest of of me. When I was clean I gave him a over the knee spanking. Feeling disappointed because he ruined such a great session and all the plans I still had with him. Like fucking me mabey. After the spanking. When his ass was propper red. I made him suck my tits while I gave myself an orgasm. It is such a shame. I will have to be harder on him.
Never cum without permission or you end up over the knee. That’s happened to me before.
How to Properly Edge Him
Clipped from: http://beautifulsecrets42.tumblr.com/
Many sites on the internet talk about ruining a male orgasm but don’t actually discuss the more effective/efficient enslaving FemdomArt…
What most ladies are much more interested in I find, is routine & habitual “edging”. That’s playing with him, fondling him, and masturbating/stimulating him right to the “edge” of orgasm but not actually letting him cum…
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The real art with edging is to learn exactly how to get him as close as possible to an explosion without actually allowing him to erupt. If you pay close attention while you fondle and play, you’ll learn precisely the clear warning signs of an imminent ejaculation. There’s nothing quite like edging for subliminally building a guys libido and desire. Not only will he cherish you more, thanks to neurochemistry, but within a short timeframe his vulnerable and exploitable mind will be totally under your feminine control…
Here are some powerful training tips:
1 - Make him always tell you exactly how close he is. Kind of obvious, but Insist that he tells you when to slow down and when to stop. Especially in the beginning while you’re learning how to read his body language. Keep talking to him, ask him how it feels, what is best. You’ll soon get the feel of it and he’ll love you even more for it…
2 - Feel for his body and muscles tensing, him holding his breath, arching his back or even tensing, all are signs he’s getting very close. Learn to read and understand the signs and don’t worry if you go over, you’re learning. Just be sure it’s a libido-building ruined orgasm…
3 - Move from strong to soft strokes, from his vein filled shaft up to his tip constantly. Change it up, take your time and make sure you get him ultra rock hard for maximum dopamine production in his vulnerable brain… I personally like lots of lube and oil and fast but not too tight of strokes, and then as he gets closer and closer, move to a looser grip and then focus on his hypersensitive head and frenulem (the strip underneath the head at the top where guys are most sensitive). Also take breaks frequently. It’s better to stop one second too early than one second too late, stroke - edge - deny - repeat…
4 - Make it ultimately his fault if he erupts. So again, if he does explode make sure you properly ruin it. Stop all rubbing and stimulation as soon as he starts to climax. Or if he’s tied down, you turn it into a post orgasm torture, after the ruined orgasm, where you use his slippery cum as lube to keep rubbing his hypersensitive Joystick, scolding him by saying: you’re so naughty, I didn’t give you permission to cum…
5 - When you do want to enjoy his pent up explosions, make that part of the tease too. When you’re planning to make him climax and erupt, this is a great time to also practice your edging techniques. Use it as an opportunity to see just how crazy you can make him, where you’re not worrying about accidently taking him over the edge…
6 - Oh and you can add a wonderfully sadistic element with this line: If you can hold on for just five minutes more my love, I won’t ruin it when you do cum, okay baby…
Thanks to FemdomDoneRight for this effective mindfuck and programming tool.
Extra notes by HerBodyOnMyMind:
1 - Routine is critical. Edge him every day. For best results: One short session (15 minutes) every other morning; one medium-length session (20-30 minutes) every evening before bed; and at least one long session (40+ minutes) every weekend. If this seems like a lot of time, consider how much time you spend alone doing things you wish he was interested in (like watching your favorite shows on Netflix). This is one activity he will eagerly join. Edging is addictive to male neurochemistry, and it very specifically addicts him to you, as long as you do it regularly. The more you do it, the more deeply he bonds to you, and the more he will crave spending time with you throughout the day. This feeds on itself, and before long, your nightly “quality time” together becomes perfectly natural for both of you. Even if you’re already in love, married, and devoted to each other, your connection can still go deeper - and the fire of wilder days can be rekindled. No more going to bed alone! Also, any time spent having sex or pleasuring you can count toward his edge time. (at your discretion) Daily orgasms for you, his heat beside you as you drift to sleep, and an eager, attentive lover totally addicted to your touch - what’s not to love? No matter how busy or tired you are, you both have the time for this, I promise. Do it for a week, and you will start making time for it.
2 - Edge him more than once. For most, this is obvious. But for some new to edging, it needs to be said. Don’t just edge him once and assume you’re done. Depending on his stamina (and how long it’s been since his last orgasm) it can take a while to build him up to his first edge of the night. It’s important to think of it that way: “first edge of the night.” Because once you’ve guided him to his edge - and stopped - he is still highly aroused, and edging him again becomes easy. All that build-up was time invested to get him to his most blissful state. Now “cash in” your investment and keep him there, by edging him over and over again. It should be easy. A single, slow, tight pump is sometimes enough. Watch his reaction and enjoy the show! (Women report that this is usually their favorite part - guiding their loved one from edge to edge with subtle touches, watching him, and knowing the exquisite gift he trusts only her to give.)
3 - Keep him guessing. Every single time you touch his cock, he should never know if you intend to edge him, ruin him, or give him a full orgasm. Lie to him. Tell him you’re going to stop, then don’t. Or tell him you’re going to ruin him, then give him a full orgasm. Or congratulate him on the orgasm you’re about to give him, then “change your mind” and stop for the night. This only works if you also sometimes tell the truth. Once he learns you are unpredictable, his body will naturally prepare for orgasm, (every time!) giving him the rush he craves - while his mind reels in fear of the alternatives. You are fucking his mind, in addition to his body - in a very good way! Watch how he reacts - from the curl of his toes to the flare in his eyes. It’s incredibly hot.
4 - A “ruined” orgasm is when you let go and cease all stimulation, a split second before he climaxes. His cum will sort of just leak out, and it’s not as satisfying as a full orgasm. “Ruined” is a misnomer, though, because he still gets some small pleasure from it, so don’t be afraid to ruin him regularly. He might thrash, beg, or try to finish it himself, so this is a good time to playfully experiment with restraints - something as simple as tying his wrists together behind his back with a belt or necktie will do the trick. The important difference between a ruined and regular orgasm is that the male libido does not diminish after a ruined orgasm. He will stay horny, eager, erect, and attentive, as though he had no orgasm at all, and you can continue playing, if you wish, after a short break. You can even ruin him twice in one night - the second one is usually harder to achieve, though.
-BodyOnMind
This is excellent, but I have much more to add. Stay tuned!
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He doesn’t know this yet, but every time he begs for release means another edge before I let him cum. And if he starts to slip over that edge, well…
Ball-punch ruined & re-locked!
He always ALWAYS has to eat it. Pleasurelessly milked into a cup? Ruined handjob all across the floor? The rare gushing inside me.
Mmm, that’s right. Go get it, slave. Earn an extra gush from me.
The way that orgasm was forced out through your cage… “squirting” is the only word that fits.
Does that humiliate you?
Prostate milking, ball punching just when you get there, or abandoning. Oh, or using a sound to draw it all out pleasure-free…
There are so many ways to drain that cock.
Chastity would be a mercy.
Daddy made me finger myself while I rode my dildo. I messed my cage for him :)
I was going to write an article on edging today, as many new Mistresses and subs ask me about the art of edging…however I was too busy edging one of my pets to write. I will add some of my own ideas for you soon, but I came across this post which has some wonderful information and perspectives from some other amazing Tumblr bloggers.
Please check out the blogs of @beautifulsecrets42 , @femdomdoneright & @herbodyonmymind
How to Properly Edge Him
Clipped from: http://beautifulsecrets42.tumblr.com/
Original version by: FemdomDoneRight
Many sites on the internet talk about ruining a male orgasm but don’t actually discuss the more effective/efficient enslaving FemdomArt…
What most ladies are much more interested in I find, is routine & habitual “edging”. That’s playing with him, fondling him, and masturbating/stimulating him right to the “edge” of orgasm but not actually letting him cum…
The real art with edging is to learn exactly how to get him as close as possible to an explosion without actually allowing him to erupt. If you pay close attention while you fondle and play, you’ll learn precisely the clear warning signs of an imminent ejaculation.
There’s nothing quite like edging for subliminally building a guys libido and desire. Not only will he cherish you more, thanks to neurochemistry, but within a short timeframe his vulnerable and exploitable mind will be totally under your feminine control…
Here are some powerful training tips:
1 - Make him always tell you exactly how close he is. Kind of obvious, but Insist that he tells you when to slow down and when to stop. Especially in the beginning while you’re learning how to read his body language. Keep talking to him, ask him how it feels, what is best. You’ll soon get the feel of it and he’ll love you even more for it…2 - Feel for his body and muscles tensing, him holding his breath, arching his back or even tensing, all are signs he’s getting very close. Learn to read and understand the signs and don’t worry if you go over, you’re learning. Just be sure it’s a libido-building ruined orgasm…
3 - Move from strong to soft strokes, from his vein filled shaft up to his tip constantly. Change it up, take your time and make sure you get him ultra rock hard for maximum dopamine production in his vulnerable brain… I personally like lots of lube and oil and fast but not too tight of strokes, and then as he gets closer and closer, move to a looser grip and then focus on his hypersensitive head and frenulem (the strip underneath the head at the top where guys are most sensitive). Also take breaks frequently. It’s better to stop one second too early than one second too late, stroke - edge - deny - repeat…
4 - Make it ultimately his fault if he erupts. So again, if he does explode make sure you properly ruin it. Stop all rubbing and stimulation as soon as he starts to climax. Or if he’s tied down, you turn it into a post orgasm torture, after the ruined orgasm, where you use his slippery cum as lube to keep rubbing his hypersensitive Joystick, scolding him by saying: you’re so naughty, I didn’t give you permission to cum…
5 - When you do want to enjoy his pent up explosions, make that part of the tease too. When you’re planning to make him climax and erupt, this is a great time to also practice your edging techniques. Use it as an opportunity to see just how crazy you can make him, where you’re not worrying about accidently taking him over the edge…
6 - Oh and you can add a wonderfully sadistic element with this line: If you can hold on for just five minutes more my love, I won’t ruin it when you do cum, okay baby…
Thanks to FemdomDoneRight for this effective mindfuck and programming tool.
Extra notes by HerBodyOnMyMind:
1 - Routine is critical. Edge him every day. For best results: One short session (15 minutes) every other morning; one medium-length session (20-30 minutes) every evening before bed; and at least one long session (40+ minutes) every weekend. If this seems like a lot of time, consider how much time you spend alone doing things you wish he was interested in (like watching your favorite shows on Netflix). This is one activity he will eagerly join. Edging is addictive to male neurochemistry, and it very specifically addicts him to you, as long as you do it regularly. The more you do it, the more deeply he bonds to you, and the more he will crave spending time with you throughout the day. This feeds on itself, and before long, your nightly “quality time” together becomes perfectly natural for both of you. Even if you’re already in love, married, and devoted to each other, your connection can still go deeper - and the fire of wilder days can be rekindled. No more going to bed alone! Also, any time spent having sex or pleasuring you can count toward his edge time. (at your discretion) Daily orgasms for you, his heat beside you as you drift to sleep, and an eager, attentive lover totally addicted to your touch - what’s not to love? No matter how busy or tired you are, you both have the time for this, I promise. Do it for a week, and you will start making time for it.
2 - Edge him more than once. For most, this is obvious. But for some new to edging, it needs to be said. Don’t just edge him once and assume you’re done. Depending on his stamina (and how long it’s been since his last orgasm) it can take a while to build him up to his first edge of the night. It’s important to think of it that way: “first edge of the night.” Because once you’ve guided him to his edge - and stopped - he is still highly aroused, and edging him again becomes easy. All that build-up was time invested to get him to his most blissful state. Now “cash in” your investment and keep him there, by edging him over and over again. It should be easy. A single, slow, tight pump is sometimes enough. Watch his reaction and enjoy the show! (Women report that this is usually their favorite part - guiding their loved one from edge to edge with subtle touches, watching him, and knowing the exquisite gift he trusts only her to give.)
3 - Keep him guessing. Every single time you touch his cock, he should never know if you intend to edge him, ruin him, or give him a full orgasm. Lie to him. Tell him you’re going to stop, then don’t. Or tell him you’re going to ruin him, then give him a full orgasm. Or congratulate him on the orgasm you’re about to give him, then “change your mind” and stop for the night. This only works if you also sometimes tell the truth. Once he learns you are unpredictable, his body will naturally prepare for orgasm, (every time!) giving him the rush he craves - while his mind reels in fear of the alternatives. You are fucking his mind, in addition to his body - in a very good way! Watch how he reacts - from the curl of his toes to the flare in his eyes. It’s incredibly hot.
4 - A “ruined” orgasm is when you let go and cease all stimulation, a split second before he climaxes. His cum will sort of just leak out, and it’s not as satisfying as a full orgasm. “Ruined” is a misnomer, though, because he still gets some small pleasure from it, so don’t be afraid to ruin him regularly. He might thrash, beg, or try to finish it himself, so this is a good time to playfully experiment with restraints - something as simple as tying his wrists together behind his back with a belt or necktie will do the trick. The important difference between a ruined and regular orgasm is that the male libido does not diminish after a ruined orgasm. He will stay horny, eager, erect, and attentive, as though he had no orgasm at all, and you can continue playing, if you wish, after a short break. You can even ruin him twice in one night - the second one is usually harder to achieve, though.
-BodyOnMind♠️♠️
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Our progress for the first three weeks of the year. I was forced to go without a full orgasm for 23 days, which is the longest I have gone.
She made me edge myself a few times while talking dirty to me and playing with my balls with her perfect feet. She ordered me to ruin it and clean it up, which I did. She told me to continue stroking and allowed me to have a full orgasm on her feet again as a reward for finishing a project I had been working on for a long time. I was told that the three weeks was just a warmup and I should be ready for it to be much longer next time.
We have started a point system where I can earn or lose points and turn them in for various things and I will post it soon.
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