Here’s a riddle:

Many people are able to see me in themselves.

Many others ignore me.

I am a perceived strength, if you can acknowledge me.

Living without me can destroy even the most precious relationships.

People who live without me are blinded, but not with their eyes.

When you use me, I never shrink, I always grow.

When you don’t, you relinquish your power to outside forces.

A lack of my presence can not always be seen, but it is felt by everyone around.

When you consistently ignore me, you will become a victim by choice.

What am I?

Accountability.