#hotwifechallenge

swhotwifehubby86:

So lately I’ve been getting several questions from some of our female followers, and I want to clear the air about something. I am here to answer questions from ANYONE who has questions about this lifestyle. This page isn’t solely for the guys that have questions. Ladies, if you have questions or concerns PLEASE feel free to ask.

In fact, I’m talking to one female follower who messaged me yesterday with concerns that her husband wants her to get into the lifestyle but she’s worried about how it will affect her marriage in the long term. Personally, I feel that’s a legitimate concern on her part as it shows that her marriage means something to her so she’s very protective of that.

I’ve also had conversations with several guys who have told me about previous relationships where they were part of the lifestyle and it ended badly because the women in the relationship broke the cardinal rule of hotwifing and that was having sex/relationship with someone and NOT telling their husband about it. That’s the fine line between hotwifing and CHEATING! Being a hotwife is finding a sexual partner and enjoying the encounter, but taking that experience home and sharing it with your husband. Ladies, I know it’s sometimes hard to wrap your head around the concept of having sex with someone who isn’t your husband, and maybe you can’t figure out what sort of pleasure he’d get from hearing about your experiences - but you’ll just have to trust him. Most guys that have the courage to bring this up to you have given it a LOT of thought. They find you incredibly sexy, and for whatever reason the thought of sharing you with another man turns them on.

You’re not being asked to have sex with another man every single night, but on occassion try to get out of your comfort zones and be sexy. I’m not saying that you have to put on some slutty outfit and prance around the town you live in and risk getting a bad reputation, but plan a trip with your husband. Go somewhere that nobody knows you and be a little more adventurous. Nobody there knows you so who cares what they think? Right?

One more thing before I wrap this up - Nobody has said that you have to jump right into this lifestyle. That’s the beauty of it. You can dip your toes in the water and let your body get acclimated just like you do when getting into a pool. Don’t pretend like you all just jump right in! haha So start out by doing a Hotwife Challenge - send your husband a random naked photo from somewhere that he’s not familiar with. Get his imagination going. Then when you’re together somewhere, maybe flash a stranger or hell even flash a trucker when you pass him on the highway. It’s simple things that will get him going and lead you into the lifestyle. If you start small, you can get an idea of how he’d react to the real thing! In the meantime, have fun in your relationship and share yourself with him. Do the things that leave him wanting more, and only wanting YOU!