#i never snap
I’m the type of sub that punishes myself so much harder than my partner could ever punish me.
Because apparently this needs to be said:
- This is not a challenge to the Doms of tumblr. I do not care how you think you could out punish me or my partner.
- My partner is as close to perfect for me as I will ever experience. So, this is also not a negative statement on him.
- This is commentary on my emotional and mental responses to situations as a submissive. I’m explaining that my drive to please L is so intense that any time I feel like I’ve failed him, I eat myself up alive. I am infinitely harder on myself than he is on me, and I usually don’t forgive myself until long after he forgives me.
- In fact, sometimes I punish myself even when L says I did nothing wrong. I hold myself to the highest standard for him. Sometimes impossibly high.
- Please don’t message me asking how I want to be punished “properly” or imply that L doesn’t give me what I need. He’s everything I need, and I’m in a happy relationship.
- It’d be cool if I could share my submissive experiences without you guys weirdly inserting yourselves hypothetically as my Dom. Like… do you guys message girls on Facebook pretending to be their boyfriend?
- Be normal 2K20.
