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it ok to not be ready
Please spread this shit like wildfire. People go on and sit through the whole experience and they’re uncomfortable because they just want to please their partner and they don’t tell them that they want to stop because they are not ready. It’s okay not to be ready.
notice here that consent is revoked without ever saying no and consent goes so far beyond yes/no!!!!!!
Make sure you and your partner are always communicating and on the same page, because if you give consent you can change your mind at any time.
this is my favorite comic on tumblr because the person initiating is the one stops it because the other person is uncomfortable and that’s just a fantastic message to spread.
i went to like the 3000th page of this tumblr because i remembered this comic and wanted to reblog it. i know im not active on my blog anymore ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ but this is important. a couple of years ago, i was sexually assaulted by somebody who was a good friend of mine at the time. my now ex-girlfriend pushed me way past my sexual comfort zone and boundaries without asking consent, in a place i couldnt cause a commotion or even protest too loud (movie theatre). im a cis male and it took me years to realize that the things that were done to me absolutely count as assault. theyve left me with a shitload of mental issues that have affected me for years and im only recently realizing are not normal, and are rooted in these events. this comic is helping.
okay sorry bye
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