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a collab with @d4rkpluto@vasnecia@fxiryheiizeand@mystiicwinter about your next suitor and how they get jealous

THE PILES

「 pile one 」

╰─➤ your next suitor

╰─➤cards : four of pentacles, the moon, eight of swords, four of cups

pile one, your next suitor is going to be someone with a very reserved and closed-off energy. i sense you won’t know how to perceive them at first, them coming quite close to a mystery. they talk a lot but they say only a little and it leaves you with many questions any time you end a conversation with them. they feel aloof in a very empty kind of way. when i first saw the moon, i thought they would be one to have a dreamy, emotional vibe yet they heavily remind me of the death card. yes, there is a lot of sadness enveloping them. i bet they are a mutable dominant because it is a bit hard for me to exactly pinpoint how they are as a person. something is bittersweet in here, as if they carry pain they’ve given up on healing a long time ago and now they move through life like a phantom. somehow they mask this darkness of theirs and simply let people they are a cold person, one that doesn’t care for the small, irrelevant aspects. they are not bad though. no rudeness nor any behaviour that can hurt you is detected here. i believe they are aware that the consequences of the things that have happened to them shouldn’t be felt by those around them as they don’t deserve it. surprisingly thoughtful. they seem to have an empathy bigger than it’s expected of them and once you pay close attention to their actions, you will find a lot of love. their affection, as rough as it might seem, leaves you doubtless of their intentions towards you and you will always know the truth in their presence. if you bother them, they will say it. but i must say there is a wall around their wounds and it will take timefor them to open up about them.

romantic gestures will be meaningful for your relationship and i’d like to mention that they like to put effort into what they are doing. there will be times where you will as if it’s a bit hard to reach them. just be patient, connections (good ones) haven’t been as many as they usually are for people and things will move slowly in the beginning. they are also understanding and won’t take it personal if you call them out on their actions if you find them bothersome. this relationship will teach them how to properly work with their emotions and despite having strong friendships in their life, you are gonna make them feel loved. you will show them that they are indeed capable of being loved and not because they’ve earned but because you simply hold these affections for them.

╰─➤ how do they get jealous

╰─➤ cards : the lovers, the star, nine of swords, six of cups

your person has had a tough childhood, my love. this resulted in a wounded, sensitive and insecure inner child that doesn’t look healed by looking at my spread. when they get jealous, it is not in a malicious, possessive way that makes you feel bad for talking to other people. it just strikes a cord within them, one that brings up paranoid and irrational thoughts of being abandoned by you. they won’t mention all of the times it happens because it will be quite often and they are aware that these are nothing but foundationless fears that won’t become a reality, in spite of their heart saying the opposite. they will care more about you, giving you space to build other relationships without worrying about them in the process. there will be times when the anxiety will be too unbearable though. by using reassuring words and speaking in a loving, caring manner you will help ease these emotions.

you know how kicked puppy look, right? imagine now a human embodying that exact energy and boom. while they are cold like a rock most of the times, this jealousy will put them in a vulnerable state in which all of the walls around their heart will crumble down. expect some tears (never in public and rarely).

ི@mystiicwinter

PILE TWO

⟶YOUR NEXT SUITOR

↳CARDS I GOT FOR THIS PILE ⟶ FOUR OF PENTACLES, TEN OF PENTACLES, THE LOVERS, NINE OF PENTACLES AND SEVEN OF PENTACLES

♇heavy earth energy for the people who picked pile three, your next suitor is someone who is heavily guarded, im hearing they give off prestige energy and they could be quite boujee. they’re someone who is driven by money and can be tight fisted about their success and assets. they might be closed-off when you meet them, you might see them as someone who is stuck up, they might be, but they’re just picky about the people they allow in their circle.

♇they’re someone who is successful for sure, heavy prestige energy, it might annoy you, because im feeling annoyed right now. arrogant energy from this person, they think highly of themselves, well, with the status of finance, career and life they give off, it makes sense on why they’re so proud. though, they could be in a family business that is going very well. the money they have helps their family on the long run, this person might date to marry though. as i tried to imply in the first paragraph, they’re someone who is careful with their money. they wont just give it to anyone.

♇however, since they give off business-man/woman vibes, they’re someone who is professional and they know when to be over-confident and they know when to humble themselves. so when they sense you being overwhelmed by their heavy and confident energy they will try and calm down and be sensitive along with tranquil. this is definitely someone who had two sides of themselves, one side being obnoxious the other side being likeable. even though i have commented that they are tight-fisted with their money, them spending money on you is their love language. this person will see you as wifey-material or you will see them as husband material, you will be easily swayed by them.

♇your next suitor is an elegant person, their prestige energy returning again. they live a very classy life and is perceived to be someone as very attractive/handsome. they’re confident and independent, i sense that throughout their life they had to do a lot of things themselves. so doing stuff individually is what they’re used to; evidently, they’re successful and they’re abundant and you’ll see it with the way they dress and the things they spent their money on. this person might want to financially support you as well? i see them spoiling you a lot.

♇they’re a patient person, they’re someone who works a lot and they’re a hard-worker, they’re someone who plans a lot so they would probably plan how they’re going to move to you. that’ll probably be the reason why they’re quiet when they first meet you, they’ll be observing you before their loud energy commences. aside from the heavy earth energy, this person gives off fire placements as well. depending on both parties, the romance between the two of you might be slow in the beginning, it depends how ready the other feels.

⟶HOW THEY GET JEALOUS

↳CARDS I GOT FOR THIS PILE⟶THE EMPEROR, SEVEN OF CUPS AND THE HANGED MAN

♇how they get jealous…they’re someone who would want to respond logically, they would want to get control over the situation, control over themselves or whoever they’re competing against with, they would try and out-masculine them and show them who is the “boss”, specifically with the past paragraphs this is someone who has a high ego, if they’re not careful enough they might give off bullying energy when they’re trying to prove who is the better.

♇this is someone who might get lost into trying to out better their competition, they have stages of jealousy. stage one is of them trying to use common sense and logic, until they get paranoid with over-thinking. creating delusions that’ll send them into deluded thinking and outcomes. they will try and do what is right, doesnt matter if it is the wrong decisions (or the right), they’ll do anything to make themselves feel better and to become the “top-dog” [ that’s what im hearing ].

♇thus, they would be quite stubborn if someone tries to talk them out of their deluded and adamant state. they will view anything how they want to see it even if you tell them clearly that what they’re thinking is totally wrong. they would probably let go of the situation but sulk in the corner, they’re quite the brat and they’re possessive so even if they will let the situation go they won’t be over it just yet. they would see how you react to their jealousy as a test. [ but the deluded thoughts will take time to get out of their mind, there’ll be a lot of ‘what if?’ situations happening in their mind ].

pluto

˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥ Pile 3

➳ Your Next Suitor

Cards → 7 of Swords, The Moon, 5 of Wands, The Empress Rx, Ace of Cups

Hello Pile 3! I just wanna say that this is SO enemies to friends to lovers. Kind of a slow-burn to be honest. So! Right away I am getting that this person is a loner. They prefer to be and do things by themselves. Not with negative intent or anything, they just feel as though they do their best work when they are alone. They prefer to have control over a situation and they cannot do that if there are other people involved. This also makes it easier for them to deal with certain problems. Heavy Water energy here, so emotions may play a big part in this relationship. Fire energy here as well. I wouldn’t be surprised if they had their Sun or Moon square their Venus.

They like to feel as though no one is counting on them or waiting on them for anything because they have a habit of ignoring issues and running away from them, but they don’t want anyone else to be subject to the repercussions of this flaw. It is highly likely that your next person will be a pessimist. They are definitely a glass half empty kind of person because they consider themselves to be unlucky or as always receiving the shorter end of the stick. They have some confidence issues; they pay too much attention to their masculine side and are not tending to their feminine side. Because of this they lack resolve and tend to fall into despair quite often. This leads to constant lying and deceit due to them being unable to express positive and truthful emotions. 

They tend to look on the bad side of every situation which corresponds with the insecure and childish energy I am getting both now and in the second half of the reading with how they get jealous.They are aware of how they come off to people and how hard it may be to be around them but despite this, they long to be love and be loved by you. They just don’t see it happening anytime soon. This relationship is the definition of it gets worse before it gets better. I sense that a fight will be the turning point in your relationship.

This may be someone from your past with the Ace of Cups here, someone who has done you wrong and wishes to have another chance. Someone who has come to apologize and ask for forgiveness. Perhaps a bully or torment? Y’know how when boys like girls they tease them and annoy them in their adolescent years, but as they get older the teasing gets to be too much and hurtful? This is what this energy feels like.

➳ How They Get Jealous

Cards → 4 of Cups Rx, Page of Swords, Ace of Wands, 8 of Swords

When this person gets jealous, they will not play fair at all. They are extremely petty and often find the smallest things to argue over. I see these types of situations going two ways. With the 4 of cups in reverse here, I believe that if they feel wronged by you, they will try to make you feel the same way by doing what they believe you to be doing. Like an eye for an eye. They will go out looking for something “bigger and better” to flaunt it in your face and hurt you like you hurt them. They could possibly be a Libra Mars.

This person doesn’t see this as “cheating” per se (even if they did they won’t admit that to you) They see it as a lesson for you to learn.They won’t feel like they did anything wrong in trying to hurt you and it will take a lot of convincing on your behalf to get them to see your point of view. 

The second way I see this going is through a fight. With all of the sword energy here I would not be surprised if this person resorted to getting physical when they are jealous. This person is very stubborn and insecure and as I said before, has a lying problem. Getting past jealousy and insecurities will take a lot of poking and prodding on your part and it will require them to be honest and reasonable. 

This is good for them though, especially since having the 8 of Swords here means that they want you to fix them. They depend on you for a lot of reasons. To them you are the pillar that keeps them grounded. There is a lot of air energy here so communication will be big here in getting past it. I’m not talking about soft and calm communication. I’m talking about cut and dry communication. Stating the problem and figuring out how to fix it without any beating around the bush. 

-fxiry

;–;Pile four;–;

What is your future suitor like?

Cards I got: queen of wands, 2 of pentacles, page of , justice, wheel of fortune, 7 of wands, from wisdoms Oracle; thinker and blessed. From work your light deck; council of light and unbound.

• This person seems very Fiery which is surprising because at first glance you might think that they’re very balanced and they wouldn’t Show their true nature on the first meeting to anyone not to you only this person also hates having debt or being indebted to somebody they like to be balanced about things. they like to keep the scales balanced this person with the justice card
• They also have a very heightened sense of justice they are the type of people that is stand against the detrimental beliefs and speak for justice in general could have active positions in social riots they also have a good grasp on their nature and other people’s natures They are generally very lucky in whatever they pursue and they seem to land on the good side of the land no matter how troubled the situation could be they also have this very young energy to them they are also impulsive and sometimes take the wrong decisions because of how hastened they make the situation out to be even though it’s not. They also could be well endowed so you wouldn’t have to worry about that.
• They overthink a lot I got the thinker card twice which means that these are the type of people that will ponder upon the creation of the universe and where they come in ,what their purpose is concerning it and how they could be stimulant for the change or how they could be a catalyst for the process and speed things up as I mentioned with impulsive quality. They’re the type of person that believe in building something up and somehow their purpose in life matters a lot to them even though at first glance people wouldn’t think of them as such but they consider purpose the creation of all things and to them it’s very very important and I feel like as a person you’d have to respect that about them and they take expect you to have a purpose as well so it could be grounds for similarities or connection for them.
• They could also be very fond of pets and animals in general so it’s possible for them to have pets or it’s possible that you could get a pet together this person is also a very good manifestors, they manifest things and they work on them people might be surprised at how they do it but it’s just one of the things that they do the that people admire about them. This person also doesn’t like routine they feel like it hinders their creativity and this person also believes in divine timing after they’ve been manifesting things into existence they’re firm believer of whatever happens, happens for a reason and in the grand scheme of things it’s actually beneficial. They have a very transformative energy about them. they’re the kind that lures people in and sometimes it plays to their charms and they could be the type of people that could keep changing their looks up which is also interesting.

What is their jealousy like?

Cards I got: The moon, 8 of wands, queen of swords, 4 of pentacles. WYL Deck; answer the call and transformation.

• OK so this is where things get interesting this is kind of all over the place so I hope. It resonates but if it doesn’t it’s also alright.
• This person internalizes their jealousy, They could detach mentally from you and leave you wondering if something went wrong if you did something wrong and is the type to contemplate on what they’re feeling because it’ll be very difficult for them to identify their emotions but Once they do figure it out I feel like they’d be very upfront about it they tell you exactly to not hang out with a certain person or they would make it obvious that their child is that you’re spending your time with your friends more instead of being with them also gives very territorial and possessive vibes could also be a tad bit controlling with the answer the call card and again I feel like this person could be the most sweet gentle person you know and then they turn into this possessive and territorial person that you would find to be very disturbing.
• this person type person that changes from day to night and this is where you should heed caution and communicate whenever you feel uncomfortable so you can figure out the differences and adjust according to them.