Applying for jobs is a hell designed specifically to torment autistic people. Here is a well-paying task which you know in your heart and soul if they just gave you a desk and left you alone and allowed you to do it you would sit there and be more focused and enthusiastic and excellent at it than anyone else in the building. However, before they allow you to perform the task, you must pass through 3-4 opaque social crucibles where you must wear uncomfortable clothes and make eye contact while everyone expects you to lie, but not too much (no one is ever clear exactly how much lying is expected, “over” honesty is however penalized). You are being judged almost entirely on how well you understand these very specific and unclear rules that no one has explained. None of this has anything to do with your ability to perform the desired task.
It really didn’t take a genius to work out that attacks on trans healthcare and lgbt protections in general would only be followed by attacks on reproductive rights lol
Like all the cis women who allied with the right wing to take down trans people because we are supposedly a threat to their rights are gonna have a shock when their new allies actually rollback their rights when they are done with us and its kinda happening in real time
The worse this situation in Ukraine is getting the more i hate the jokes americans make about it. All of those “vladdy look at me this isn’t u ” “not me living through ww3” and “i don’t wanna get drafted” jokes are just in bad taste to me. If it were my country, i would not want people to joke about it this way.
And i see so many of them go “well we use humor to cope” literally from what? What do you need to cope from? The traumatic event of watching the news and seeing footage of something that’s happening hundreds of miles away from you? That’s no different from any other war that’s been happening over the last two decades though. Wars that America has very much been involved in. So why is this different to you? Because “white” countries are involved now?
Before you joke think about what you’re saying. American teens and young adults are probably as far removed from this conflict as can be, which is why you find it so easy to joke about this. I have also seen brits and other west europeans make jokes so ofc americans aren’t the only ones, but you are the majority. I have yet to see east europeans make jokes though. Why? Because they realize how serious this situation is and jokes don’t help.
Meanwhile Ukrainians have to sit and watch their land be invaded. They are losing their homes. I stand with Ukraine
Was in the mood to draw a botanic garden ✌ I especially love old greenhouses. There is something about the idea of indoor jungles that really fascinates me and whenever i visit a new city i sure have to visit the local botanic garden #nature #illo #drawing #illustrationgram #instaillustration #womenofillustration #illustrationart #instaart #botanicgarden #greenhouse #plants #jungle #digitalart #illustree #picame #illustratorsoninstagram
Dreaming of botanical gardens, its so long since I last visited one
I want to boost everything this person has said and add on.
The reason I call myself a tomboy now, despite it being seen as a childish word and having had someone swear at me over it because ‘tHeRe’S nO suCh thInG as BoY thInGs anD giRL thIngS sHut uP’ is because I couldn’t call myself that or be like that when I was a kid. It was seen as a negative thing and I was already bullied enough. “Looking like a boy” was the worst thing that could happen to a girl.
And I’m not even 26 yet. We aren’t talking 30+ years ago, we are talking 2000s and even 2010s. It’s only since trans people have become more accepted in the past few years that gender nonconformity has too.
And the people who helped me accept my gender nonconformity more than anyone else? Were trans people. They taught me, “there’s nothing wrong with how you feel. You’re still a valid woman no matter what you wear, how you have your hair or what you’re into ❤️”
And don’t even get me started on how people treat gender nonconforming men. JK Rowling has a lot of nerve to be like “uwu boys can wear dresses and only us gendercrits accept that!” when she has, even in recent works, made femininity in men a negative trait, as well as making masculinity in women a negative trait also.
A lot of people still don’t accept gnc people even now. Just last year I had someone tell me they’d never let their daughter “dress like a boy”, and I’m always terrified to walk into a bathroom in case the next JK Rowling is in there, sees my gender expression and pepper sprays me or worse.
“There’s no such thing as boy things and girl things.” I don’t need to be told that and I’m sure 99% of trans people also don’t need to be told that. Tell that to the society that hates us both instead of actively encouraging that hate.
Gonna point out the og tweet thread is now full of terfs saying that life was better for gay people in the fucking 80s, that it was super easy for them to be a tomboy in the 70s and 80s and therefore it must have been that way for everyone, and that it was totally acceptable to be a gnc gay person in the 80s!
They’re rewriting history as we speak to try to argue trans acceptance is making it harder to be gay and gnc for youth than it was to be gay in the 80s. This is a blatant lie.
The fucking 80s??? As in, “aids crisis” 80s?? As in, “the government actively avoided funding research to help gay people” 80s????
Man I knew terfism was brain rot but I didn’t think it was thisbad.
Actually I’m not going to just keep this in the tags
