#like fuck you

the concept of someone with a mental illness healing and moving forward is not the same or even comparable to someone with a mental disability. both are serious, but are not the same.

it’s also hilarious to me to see all of this shit about how people need to heal in their own time, in their own ways yet no one seems to understand that it being their way does not give you the right to be selfish and decide when they’ve exhausted their way of healing. if someone has a specific way that works for them and you come in fucking up their whole routine, that is YOUR fault, not the fault of them regressing because you refuse to fucking listen to what they say triggers them. someone in the right environment can heal in months, bring that negativity right back into their space of growth and they will always recede.