#maiesiophilia
A big belly suits her so well
Better start reading faster, young lady… Your belly is proof enough that you’re about to be in a lot of trouble.
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A perfect fall outfit. It shows off the belly while still looking cute and casual. I would totally wear this, my growing belly expanding out over my leggings.
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This is what I would wear if I was trying to hide my pregnancy still. A peplum cut top that would conceal my belly, and tight legging and boots to show off my legs as an distraction. Just don’t look at me from the side…. :P
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This might be an unpopular opinion, however:
If you’re posting real-time photos and updates of a fantasy pregnancy/labor, you really need to tag or disclaim it as fake.
What these fantasy narratives are doing is creating this expectation for all of us to share the same updates when we actually get pregnant. In a way, it’s almost like peer pressure/coerced consent.
I know for 99% of these blogs and their followers it’s kind of an unspoken truth that it’s fantasy. But there are people who will not realize, and those people will start demanding ‘progression’ content from actually pregnant people.
Try to keep this in mind:
SomeMOST pregnant people, even those with pregnancy/birth kinks, just want to be able to enjoy their pregnancy/birth without a lot of horny people bothering them for free content.Please, please, tag your fantasy pregnancy posts as fantasy/fake. I know it sucks to admit that they are, but it’s a simple step you can take to protect your fellow kinksters.
imo, another big issue is that these people are spreading false information about pregnancy and birth.
obviously you shouldn’t be getting all your reproductive health info from kink blogs anyway, but like. a lot of people in this community want to get pregnant irl, and lying publicly about a pregnancy can give them unrealistic expectations for their own. in particular, i’ve seen a few people sharing fairly unrealistic “birth experiences” that could potentially lead others to believe irl childbirth will live up to their kink fantasies, which… doesn’t sit right with me.
i’ve also seen some people claim their plan is to keep getting pregnant and giving their children up for adoption over and over, which would be really, really unethical. surrogacy is one thing, but the foster care/adoption system is already overloaded, and adding to the vast numbers of kids needing a home just to fulfill a kink is pretty fucking gross. please do not do this irl.
like, when you’re writing fiction, it is not your responsibility to make sure the reader knows what you’ve written is unrealistic. but when you claim that your fiction is reality, you need to be aware of how your words might influence others.
Thank you for this, avi!! This wasn’t in response to anyone in particular, I’ve just seen so many blogs doing this and I needed to speak out as someone planning to become a parent in a few years. Health education, both physical and mental, need to be taught in our community.
Please remember a few more things while spending time in preg/birth kink spaces online:
-In many places, home births and unassisted births are actively dangerous choices and could result in the death of a baby OR YOU as the birthing parent. If you’re choosing this type of birth to fulfill a fantasy (sexual or otherwise), that’s unethical.
-‘Orgasmic birth’ is not exactly a myth, but it’s not something that magically happens for most people. So if you want that, understand that it pretty much means you’re going to have to masturbate during labor or pushing. Is that something your partner/midwife/doctor is cool with? Also, after your water breaks, penetrative sex is a HUGE infection risk. Do not do this.
-Taking a baby away from their birth parent is *inherently traumatic*. For both parent and a child. Are you ready to tell your therapist about this, knowing that they may not understand and want to report to CPS? Are you okay with the intended parents and/or surrogacy agency being in the dark as to your true intentions for becoming a surrogate?
-Giving up a bunch of children into the adoption system is extremely unethical too. Especially for POC, disabled folks, etc.—there are kids who have suffered in foster homes for YEARS because the majority of adoptive families want white, abled, newborn babies and nothing else.
I’m sorry if it sucks to have your NSFW Tumblr time interrupted by this sort of heavy shit, but there’s a ton of really young adults (18-25) I’m seeing create blogs here and y’all need to understand that while having a kink isn’t inherently harmful, trying to make some fantasies reality can definitely be.
This is not saying you should never have children if you have these kinks. You can still have a baby and it can still be a beautiful, enjoyable experience. But there has to be some level of separation between kink/fantasy and reality for everyone’s sake.
This might be an unpopular opinion, however:
If you’re posting real-time photos and updates of a fantasy pregnancy/labor, you really need to tag or disclaim it as fake.
What these fantasy narratives are doing is creating this expectation for all of us to share the same updates when we actually get pregnant. In a way, it’s almost like peer pressure/coerced consent.
I know for 99% of these blogs and their followers it’s kind of an unspoken truth that it’s fantasy. But there are people who will not realize, and those people will start demanding ‘progression’ content from actually pregnant people.
Try to keep this in mind: Some MOST pregnant people, even those with pregnancy/birth kinks, just want to be able to enjoy their pregnancy/birth without a lot of horny people bothering them for free content.
Please, please, tag your fantasy pregnancy posts as fantasy/fake. I know it sucks to admit that they are, but it’s a simple step you can take to protect your fellow kinksters.
When he’s balls deep in you and whispers “you’re going to look so beautiful when you’re pregnant”…
Don’t mind me…just imagining myself with my arms around your neck, slow dancing through contractions while you rub my massive belly and kiss my forehead…
