#mutuals look at the full post pls
Trying to figure out if the comment is making fun of someone or not is so difficult
Bc if they’re making fun of the person it’s. Actively insulting people who identify with masculinity in a non traditional way.
But I can’t tell bc tone is hard enough as is and is even worse online
Looked in the notes and it’s full of people absolutely bullying the persons definition of “masculine” but like. Hng
As a genderfluid person who dresses still rather traditionally “feminine” in order to best identify with how my masculinity suits me,,, that fricking hurts and I kinda wanna cry.
Like yes it’s a traditionally feminine style but it gives me gender euphoria in my personal experience of masculinity.
Why would people allow cis men to dress traditionally feminine and still use it to represent their masculinity but when I do it I’m gonna be ridiculed for calling myself masc
This one.
Like if it were an analysis of how feminity and masculinity is portrayed thanks to our society that’d be one thing. But all the notes are just making fun of the person.
And like sure, maybe this isn’t a genderfluid person
But like. Do you see how it’s harmful to insult them? It’s not quite my style but I still wear clothes that look traditionally feminine ish when I’m having a masculine day bc that’s what gives me gender euphoria!!!
Like I get what they’re trying to say!!! But this is!!! Not nice!! It’s just bullying!!!
