Sex Talk #5: Anal

I talked to different people and they all had different opinions about anal sex. Some thought that nothing should go into the back hole, some thought women need to be fucked properly and with agression and some people, mostly women, want to try it, but don’t trust their partners.

All of these thoughts probably come from porn and their way of making men feel like they need to pound their partner 160mph with everything they have. Same reason why women are scared of anal.

But it doesn’t have to be like that. It’s all about comunication. If women told their male partners that they want to try anal but don’t wanna start hard and fast their partners should help them overcome that fear and help them explore their sexuality.

I’ve done great anal, bad anal, hurtful anal,… and I have always told my partner about how i felt after it, wether good or bad. I’ve bleed after amazing anal and when my partner was worried, i told him I wouldn’t change a thing.

It’s all about communication! Women don’t be afraid to talk to your partners and men try asking women respectively if they want to try it and guide them through how you can take it slow and easy.

Stay safe and have fun