#my writing ramblings
Here’s an update on Camp NaNo for the first week. (I meant to do these more frequently, but hey, an update is an update lol.) I’ve been doing at least a tiny bit of brainstorming each day for the first draft of Flashover (book two). Having a general outline above my desk definitely helps! My goal by the end of the month is to have as close to a full outline as I can get. I’m also trying to write at least a few scenes so I can get words flowing again. It’s been literal years since I wrote new story words! Today I wrote part of a scene and it was simultaneously frustrating and wonderful. Wonderful in that I did it. The writing itself is cringe worthy. But I’m letting the tap flow again and that’s what’s important, or so @elliot-orion keeps reminding me.
The three notebooks are the ones I’m using today. The blue one is a mini binder so I’m using that to organize general series and character notes. The book takes place in two realities (the main one and a parallel reality that had recently split from the main one) so I figured it would be easier to keep the scenes separated into two notebooks. Ya know, rather than than try to figure out weeks or months from now which Dray scene goes where.
Speaking of Dray, I wasn’t sure what notebooks to use. I’d been putting off using the sequin ones because they remind me of bad memories of when I got them, but none of the other notebooks I have called to me. Dray got all pouty and was like “it’s my damn book, if you don’t use the red sequin notebook, I’m not going to talk to you.” Tempting, but I really do need them as the main dork. That left me with dark blue, teal, or purple for the other half of the book. Ametrine chimed in that he’s a POV in the one reality and he’d really really like the purple sparkles. Dray is already rubbing off on Ame. I’m doomed. Ame, I’m begging you, please take after literally any of your other parents.
A week into NaNo and it’s going about as well as my writing did in October, which is to say not very far at all. Brain fog has been awful this week and I’ve been mostly directing any creativity and spoons into my new living space and making it feel like home. Which is a really good thing! Having this space is ultimately going to make me feel a lot more comfortable and settled. But it also means that writing and Tumblr didn’t happen. Well, I did come close to having breakthroughs about one of my characters and how the trilogy will tie everything together. I’m hoping to get this answer soon, when my head doesn’t feel so foggy that it’s blocking my view of everything. (Heck, tonight it took me fifteen minutes to remember how to do a basic crochet stitch I’ve done so many times.)
I still have hopes that I can make writing progress this month, so maybe in a few days I’ll be able to give a good status update. My dorks are in my head, it’s just like a whole lot of static coming through when I try to reach them. It’s like Sol designed a really crappy walkie-talkie lol
So yeah, just wanted to give a heads up because I know I said I’d be back on here and doing NaNo, then vanished again. I might be a vanishing act for longer or my body could stop rebelling tomorrow, who knows? I hope everyone’s writing is going well, whether you’re doing NaNo or not. :-)
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THIS WEEK’S QUESTION: What is your primary love language? If you don’t know, take the quick test here! Now, do you find your characters expressing or receiving love in ways that are similar to you or do you purposely diversify their displays of affection?
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I really like this question from last week so I’m going to answer it now. :) I’ve never thought about what any of our love languages are, me or my characters, so this was definitely never purposely diversified. So let’s see what me and these dorks would be!
With the test I got Words of Affirmation for myself, which doesn’t surprise me in the slightest. I know life’s put me into a position where what I want more than anything is to hear that I’m important to someone, that I did something well, that I’m appreciated. I have a hard time believing it when I do hear these things, though, so those I care about tend to have to drill these words into my head repeatedly to get them to stick lol
Adair’s is most definitely Physical Touch. What he craves is to be physically close to the people he cares about, be it hugging, kissing, snuggling, sleeping next to them, whatever. For him, physical affection carries more weight than words because in his experience words haven’t always been truths, but someone wanting to be physically near him hasn’t led him wrong.
Etri’s is Quality Time. He’s never been a fan of touch (although he comes to enjoy this from those he loves) but he loves being around the people he cares about. It means so much to him when they take a genuine interest in what he’s interested in, or when they’re patient enough to get through his anxiety to listen to what he has to say, or to just want to be there with him.
Blythe’s is Acts of Service. She shows her affection by doing things for people and helping them whenever possible. She isn’t very physically affectionate, she doesn’t really do gifts, and words don’t mean much to her– actions do. She won’t believe a thing until she sees it with her own eyes. I think it would surprise her to realize how much it means to her when someone she trusts helps take a task off her plate. She’ll swear up and down that she’d rather do everything herself, but she truly appreciates when the dorks help her out and have her back
Dray’s is Receiving Gifts. Like Addy, Dray’s learned not to trust words (especially not when Dray can spin words themself to get people to agree to things), they don’t trust actions any more than words because that could be deception, too, and they’re not big on touch much more than Etri is. But if someone gives Dray a gift that obviously has thought in it, like the person knows Dray enough to know what they like? Or if they had a moment in the day where something reminded them of Dray so they got it for them? That’s something Dray can’t doubt the sincerity of. And it’s even more so when flipped– Dray absolutely shows their affection by giving the dorks things that they want or need, frequently even before the dork in question realizes this. Dray is incredibly perceptive and it’s not unusual for a dork to find something sitting in their possessions that they didn’t have yesterday but they have a need for today. I think it takes the others a while to work out that it’s Dray doing this. (Dray also leaves their beloved stuffed dragon plush with the others’ stuff, like guarding Addy’s paintbrushes or sitting in one of Blythe’s potted plants. It’s a sign of trust and affection and a playful side of Dray that the others eventually bring out.)
Sol… he’s absolutely every single love language. He loves physical touch as much as Addy does (Sol gives the best bear hugs), he loves spending time hanging out with the people he loves like Etri does, he thinks it’s the coolest thing when people want to help him with his inventions and tasks similar to Blythe, he gives gifts just as frequently as Dray (in his case, he’s always building inventions that will help the others out), and like me he wants so much to hear people tell him positive things (that they’re proud of him, that he did something right, that they love him). Sol is so full of love that he shows it in every way possible all the time, so I couldn’t actually take the test for him because he couldn’t choose things he liked better lol
It’s Tender Tuesday! One of the two days of romance for writers! As I did before I will be posting this question for all to see and participate! Feel free to answer in a reblog or comment or if you feel like just posting on your blog tag this fellow writer so I can have a read! Happy romantic writing, lovelies!
The day it all started. How did your OTP (or if you’re feeling like writing more OTPs) meet?
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Blythe met Etri after she returned to her carnival troupe after getting her medical degree and found him and his twin living in the upstairs of her home where her sibling-by-choice had been living. Dray had left the troupe without telling her, so that was… well, not exactly a shock becaus I think Blythe was expecting Dray to run away because of a fear of getting close to people, but it disappointed her anyway. She didn’t technically meet Etri until a few days later, though, when he stopped to talk to her at the troupe’s campfire late at night and she thought for a minute that a ghost was talking to her lol
Blythe and Etri, now very close friends who were absolutely crushing on each other without letting the other know, met Adair a few months later. He’d sleepwalked into the carnival and bumped into Sol, who decided to drag Addy under one of the floating homes the carnies live in because he was afraid Blythe was going to yell at him for being outside when he was supposed to be resting because he was sick. So Blythe and Etri’s first interaction with Addy? Was seeing him crawl out from under the house after Blythe had dragged Sol out, and seeing him standing there sheepishly in pajamas and quacking ducky slippers. Adair got shooed away by Blythe who wasn’t feeling particularly up to listening to why he was there when she was worried about Sol’s health. (Etri did hand Addy his coat so he wasn’t freezing since it was winter.) Addy came back a little bit later with a bribery pie, an apology, Etri’s coat, and a plea for help.
I always joke that how the dorks all met should have been a weird AU because there are so many much more logical ways they could have crossed paths, but nope. Sleepwalking and carnivals is the canon lol
Work is busy again unfortunately, so I’m just leaving an open ask for everyone today!
My question is a more generic writing one, as I couldn’t think of a good character-related one:
What are your favourite romance tropes? Are there any you love reading but never write yourself, and vice versa? Are there any tropes you have subverted in your writing?
I mean, I guess I’ve subverted the love triangle trope by making a culture where triads are the norm. I always love me some good polyam rep and that’s definitely all throughout the series. :) Friends to lovers is a good one. I also really love queerplatonic stuff so that’s in everything I write, too. I love soulmate tropes, but more like in the way I’m doing it– by being compatible with someone and close to someone, you can become their soulmate, it isn’t fated.
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It’s kind of weird in my writing. I have canon soulmates as a running theme, but fate isn’t involved. Soulmates are to balance magic and keep a person from using too much of their energy or losing control over it.
In Concordia, my main culture/country, you make the choice of who you want to be what’s essentially your soulmate. This usually just happens when someone’s magic is strong enough to need the empathetic link, so not everyone with magic ends up linked. Traditionally it’s a romantic triad of two people with magic and one sentinel, which is a bodyguard of sorts. Things have become far less dangerous the past few generations, so mostly the sentinel takes care of their artists’ art, guarding it from thieves and also selling it. It doesn’t always have to be three, it doesn’t always have to be a romantic relationship, and it doesn’t always have to be two artists, but there does always have to be at least one person who can do the protection side of the link. The link is granted through a series of tests to determine if the artist is ready to advance with their magic, while also testing the loyalty and devotion the usually-triad has to each other. It doesn’t have to happen via tests, but since things have become so safe, it kind of gives a mock dangerous situation for the link to spark.
(Fun fact: My five main dorks spark this link entirely by accident. They’re definitely exceptions to the rule, considering it is usually three, usually romantic, and doesn’t usually happen on an oops.)
My other cultures have balance with magic, too. Like my Salamanders, the lizard people who have some shapeshifting ability and can control fire, have a connection to a sibling. Usually Salmanders are born as twins in that both parents get pregnant at the same time, but occasionally someone else is chosen to be a sibling, particularly if the one passes away later in life, but there isn’t always another person to bond with. This is less than ideal.
And in Montglace, the country where magic is only inside the temples of light and shadow, it’s supposed to be that people from both temples work together so that there’s an overall balance between the two kinds of magic. What’s been happening lately is an imbalance, though, because there’s been something of a falling out between the temples. Magic is less than stable there as a result and control over their elementals can be somewhat iffy.
I kinda veered off topic, but soulmates are my favorite trope ever. I love twisting the trope around so it isn’t like, fated to be with someone romantically. :)
I’ve been having trouble getting back into writing, so it felt really good today to work on book one. I know there are big changes I need to make to the plot and those hadn’t been working right, but I think I’m heading in the right direction now. I hope. The main plot got changed to something kinda similar, but different enough that the next draft is going to need to be outlined from scratch. Which is why I was getting stuck. I kept trying to make the new plot work with the old outline.
Also brainstorming while sitting in a pile of art books feels so right. Both because I’m getting back into art and because the Adair’s the main character of book one, with the whole being an artist and arcane painter thing.
Yesterday was my happy place. I got to go to the lake at the state park with my family and just relax. I even worked on some writing ideas, which is big when my brain fog has been awful. I realized that all the changes I was making to book one to try to streamline it are causing more problems than they’re fixing, though. I’m not really sure what to do with this book, so I think I need to look at the story less specifically. If I can go back to knowing what the key points have to be, the solution might be obvious.
Poor Talan and Rosalie are stuck in a revolving door as I try to figure out if they need to be in here or not. I think taking them out is what’s making things fall apart, even though they both feel like extras I don’t necessarily need. So we’ll see.
Working on the series for the first time in what feels like an eternity. Realized my huge newsprint sketchbook is perfect for this outlining. I don’t want to take down the outline for the next book that’s on my huge whiteboard, and I wasn’t currently using this sketchbook. I think I’m going to try to pin it to the whiteboard, though, so I can have both outlines handy.
I think I found a way to make the time travel subplot work, so we’ll see! I’m going to write out the main plot next to make sure the two plots intersect.
Also cat help. Not my cat, but she wants to help anyway.
Yeah, that idea worked out pretty well. :-)
Working on the series for the first time in what feels like an eternity. Realized my huge newsprint sketchbook is perfect for this outlining. I don’t want to take down the outline for the next book that’s on my huge whiteboard, and I wasn’t currently using this sketchbook. I think I’m going to try to pin it to the whiteboard, though, so I can have both outlines handy.
I think I found a way to make the time travel subplot work, so we’ll see! I’m going to write out the main plot next to make sure the two plots intersect.
Also cat help. Not my cat, but she wants to help anyway.