Men have always seen women as sexual objects but like?? Bring back courting why did everyone just give up on trying to impress the women you’re pursuing it’s weak and lazy!
Like ladies what *is* he doing for you? Is he doing anything at all? Is he even trying?
i literally have this discussion with my straight friends once a week.
men see sex as love and thats it for them
ladie does he remember your fave flower?, fave color? your fave type of restaurant?
on anniversaries what does he do besides take you out to dinner? does he get you a gift you’ll enjoy? either as a couple or just you?
Does he enjoy watching your fave movies together? even “chick flicks”
does he respect your interests even if they’re different from his own?
if all or most of your answers to these questions is in the negative you need to reevalute your relationship and ask yourself if he truly loves you? or loves what you can do for him?
i taught swim lessons and preschool, do y’all wanna hear the most ridiculous white kid names i’ve ever seen?
i’ve met at least a dozen children named some form of “jackson” but the best ones were “jaxon” and “jakson”
a parent who i really liked named her son “jaycob” because she was worried people wouldn’t pronounce it correctly. when someone accidentally spelled it “jacob” she would loudly and obnoxiously ask “WHO’S JAH-KOBE?”
two siblings named “thor” and “tiara”
i once had a classroom with four girls named “brooklyn”
if you sent me a list of popular boy names, i could guarantee i’ve met every single one of them
twin girls named paisley and brinley
a girl named reader
a boy named rocko
keighleey
kayde
kolten
if it can start with a “k” instead of a “c” i have met that child
brittalynn
i taught a swim class with three girls named “london” but only one of them was spelled “lundon” and i know my boss did that to me on purpose
a couple named all their kids after places in arizona: tatum, payson, and hayden
and speaking of hayden, i’ve seen: haydon, heighden, and heydon
according to some white people, there are sixteen different ways to spell mckenzie
lakelyn, blakelynn
this is white culture
I had a student named Branch.
I once had pair of siblings named Hunter and Tanner. I really wanted them to have a sister named Fawn.
I had a Clark and Ophelia that were a bit unusual in the naming department.
And I had every single imaginable version of a girl’s name staring with “Mad-“ and every single imaginable version of a boy’s name ending in “-aden”
Mom’s a teacher. So far her best/worst white kid names:
“Damion with a Y” according to the parent. Daymion? Damyon? Nope. Damiony. The Y is silent, said parent
A girl named Free. Maybe not that bad on its own, but the girl’s last name was Love
A boy named Calup because his mom couldn’t spell Caleb
the y is silenty
saw a white lady who had a poodle named Leigheaux (Leo…)
I have a bit of vintage nonsense from the ‘50s. my dad went to school with a girl named Emily. pretty normal- but her last name was Memily. apparently she was pretty eager to grow up and get married just to escape Name Hell.
while i give special mention to my sister Kaitylynn maxine (she was originally to be named Brianna deora (pronounced dora) by far the worst names I’ve ever seen as someone in the education field are
-ashleighlynn
-a girl named athena artemis her brother was london thames (no not kidding)
-a boy named scooter
- amberlynn
honestly if i can replace your kids name with a keysmash and it sounds the exact same we have a problem
I ended my 48 hr social media fast by seeing a video of a muscular woman crush a pumpkin with her thighs so i’d like to say that despite 5779 starting rocky it looks like its gonna be a great year!
hey guys! as you know tomorrow starts Yom Kippur, a very important day in jewish culture a day meant to be spent in self reflection and fasting. but because of my health i won’t be fasting in a traditional sense, i’ll be doing a social media fast which as anyone who knows me knows is very very hard for me. But i’ll be gone for the next 48 hrs
I hope your Yom Kippur is one fillled with reflection and retrospection
be kind to yourself and i’ll see you after Yom Kippur
speaking as someone who is HoH all videos/tv shows/movies should be an opt out not an opt in system for captions. youtube auto captions need to be fixed so they make sense and all education classes should come with an interpreter.
Rosh Hashanah is the start of the Jewish new year. We say l'shana tovah, which means have a good year. Apples and challah (dipped in honey) are symbols of hope for a sweet new year. :)
i wish someone had told me,that speaking up and saying i wasn’t going to church to my devout Christian family would be one of the hardest choices i would have to make as a convert.
even now its hard and anxiety inducing…. but i’ve over come it little by little.
and as I spend my fridays and Saturdays in reflection and alone at service I am reminded of those before me and i remember why i chose this path….. because its me and my home.
