Fun fact: it’s not illegal for anyone, underage or not, to have a pastel colored blog, post pictures of pacis & stuffed animals, & identity themselves as littles. Regardless of your opinion.
Fun fact: it is illegal to tell someone to kill themselves.
Source? Please educate me & show me the law that states someone can’t call themselves little. I’ve been trying to find it & nothing has come up so it’d be great if you could help me.
(P.S.) I’m not a minor but if i was I wouldn’t be “ruining” anything by simply being here.
1. Telling someone to “go kill themselves” is a. Harassment b. Bullying and c. If you are an adult 18+ saying this to someone under 17 it is also classified as child abuse. 2. If you really want to play that game, you’re about to lose. The term “little” followed by baby, girl, boy, darling, etc etc etc was coined by parents first centuries ago, and by bdsm not even a century ago. To claim it as a “kink term” is to define all parents for hundreds of years as sexualising their children, right up to modern day. No. Just, no. You have NO right to claim a word, or any number of words, with multiple meanings, and harass anyone using it. You want to play that? I am a parent. I call my daughter my little girl. No matter whether she’s 5 or 50, she is my little girl. Don’t you dare tell me it’s sexual. Don’t you dare tell me it’s kink. Because you are one sick bastard if you do. 3. A caregiver is just that; someone who cares for another person, whether it’s a simple “how are you feeling?” To having to care for their every need. Ever heard of a “child carers”? No? Well aren’t you sheltered in your little dungeon bubble. Education time; there are many children as young as 5 having to care for someone else; a parent, sibling, their carer. There are numerous reasons for it, but the biggest one is lack of SUPPORT. And they quite often miss out on a lot in life such as an education, a childhood, socialisation with their peers. Charities set up to help them as well as care services can only do so much, and in countries where even public services come at a cost, these children and their families have little to no access to the support they so desperately need. So, instead of harassing a child in your spare time, how about donating it to HELPING them instead. 4. Other than for personal, religious or some other reason, teenagers are dating. They are in a relationship. They have relationships. In any healthy relationship there is understanding, compassion, honesty, caring for each other. EVERY RELATIONSHIP SHOULD HAVE THESE. It is not just specific types. There will always be either equal amounts of give and take, or one will give (care for) more while the other is given (cared by) their partner. Again, it is NOT specific to certain kinds of relationships. The majority of people want to spend more time with one person than anyone else (whether it’s platonic, romantic or other). There is no dynamic. There is no kink. It’s a bloody relationship. 5. Stop. And I mean stop, mixing up littlespace with age play. If you want to engage in sexual acts while sucking a pacifier and wearing a diaper, that’s age play. Littlespace is about age regression, embracing the innocence of childhood again, majority for mental health, others as a stress relief. It has been used for YEARS by psychologists and therapists to help with trauma victims, mental health patients, and many other cases. 6. Because I know some dimwit is going to say something, here are my answers; A. I’m an adult. From what I’ve seen and deduced, I’m a good few years older than most of the people here. B. I’ve been exploring cgl and age play for about a decade, if not a bit longer. Which means that, no, I’m not a “tumblr kid”. I’m a documentary, explorative, information searching individual who has a damn fair better idea than most, as well as a better understanding. C. I have been involved in several chats and discussions with many people of the bdsm lifestyle, and a good majority of them agree to the differentiation between age play and littlespace; the former is sexual, the latter inherently not. Many of these people were older than myself by a minimum of 5 years, the oldest at the time being around 40 some years. Once again, ages I would gather far surpassing the majority here. D. I talk to many an individual between 15 and 24 currently, and I’ve yet to hear a single one talk about wanting anything truly kink related. No whips nor chains, no complete power exchange or dominance. Merely love, understanding, acceptance, and being themselves. If anyone is sexualising them, it is you. E. If teens want sex they’re going to do it, they don’t have to know a thing about bdsm to do it. They don’t need permission to do it. What they do need is education to keep them safe. Something that seems to lack in a lot of households and school curriculums. They need good examples of healthy relationships and how to spot warning signs. Again, something which lacks in the household and school curriculum, and (judging on a lot in this community) severely lacking in the general public. If you’re not willing to educate, send them my way. I’ll be happy to give them judge free advice. Then you can be happy in your bubble and I can be happy helping the next generation have a chance at a safer life. My points are made. I have no intention of further wasting my breath, and therefore will not be making further responses to this post. Thank you, and good day to you all.
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There’s so much about “underage littles & nonsexual littles need to call themselves something else cuz its a kink term!”
No. If you think littlespace is a kink, you are confusing it with ageplay. Do not tell me I need to call myself something else, you need to call yourself an ageplayer & stop using the word little if that’s what you are. If you’re both cool, just understand that the two are not the same & refusing to see the difference is ridiculous. Do not push your kinks onto everyone else. Do not claim & adopt words because you’re too embarrassed to call yourself an ageplayer, you wanna make it sound cute & sweet, & then get mad when people don’t think of the word having the same meaning as you.
all i could add to this wonderful post was this gif
So much of this ^^^ This is what needs to be spread around, not little hate and block lists
