#signaling

You’re worried about signaling and are afraid that you don’t look enough like a lesbian to meet other wlw. “Y/N,” your bff Harry tells you, “it’s not how you dress that makes you a lesbian, it’s your love for women. If it would make you happy though, I can help you pick out some new clothes.” The next day he takes you to the local Goodwill and you spend hours together picking out and trying on all of the gayest clothes in the store. He helps you dig through piles of grandma sweaters and flared pants and flannel shirts until you’ve found a lesbian style that feels comfortable and very You. You even find some pride pins in a bucket of badges in the back! Just on the walk home you get lesbian nods from seven different girls!