#sirsays

Despiteyour brilliantly displayed protestations, Sir knows that you want it…

Let it build…savor the build up…use its energy to keep you in a heightened state of arousal, tingling all over in eagerness…

Deliberate, but never unnecessarily so, nor to a greater degree than agreed upon by the Submissive…forceful, but not disrespectful…vigorous, but not violent…planned, but not scripted…

Intense and indefatigable in pursuit of pleasuring my Submissive…

Such is ourEngagement

Indeed…

WhenHe/heorShe/she does something, wears something, says something, shares something, reveals something, does anything, no matter how small, always assume that He/he or She/she did it for you, to attract you, to please you, to show you they want you to notice…and let them know that you noticed straight away…and if you have done something to get noticed by Him/him or Her/her, and they do, reward them and do it in such a way as only you know they will love

The requisite respect, honor and protection that are the responsibilities of an Authentic Dominant, necessarily disallow any words, request, directive, activity or treatment that could ever lead to a Dominant showing, or allowing anyone else to show their submissive, contempt.

…and also the strongest sign of trust…

Consent produces and nurtures a level of sensuality completely unattainable without it

Determination, purposeful drive and playful disappointment are dear and worthy, but real harshness of any sort is unbecoming and not Gentlemanly…

Showing a soft hand is not to display weakness nor does it diminish “authority” since in an Authentic Engagement, a true D/s relationship, the “authority” is shared equally.  Tenderness from a Dominant shows their fullness of character and depth of love.

Unexpected directions spoken by a Dominant to their submissive can be stimulating, however, an incongruous, unexpected and sudden touch in that special way, in that special place, to direct the submissive to action is provocatively perfect