#spankedwives

1. I ask for one. Erotic, playful spankings turn me on. They relax my brain and make me feel gushy and emotional about my husband.
2. He wants it. He has stress to work out too. My submission turns him on. And he says it’s just fun to spank me.
3. I’ve deliberately disobeyed. An extremely rare occurrence in our home. I am one sorry lady when that happens.
4. I’m behaving like I may need one soon. Attitude, acting scattered or edgy are his first red flag that a realignment is needed. Not outright disrespect or disobedience, just enough off that he makes our roles and rules crystal clear.
5. It’s Friday. Stress Relief Fridays are how we strive to start the weekend. I get a good girl spanking, reminded of his expectations, I repeat them back to him and promise to obey. Every Friday, I get some kind of discipline with this chat.
6. It’s the week before my period. I have always had terrible PMDD. One week before my period hits, we have a discussion.
7. I let a cuss word slip in front of the kids. Lines, so many lines…. then “Naughty Corner time” time with the paddle in my hand until he’s ready, over the knee, mouth soaping and lecture, back over the bed for more spanking, and never sex after. I’ll take him in my mouth after but there is NO pleasure allowed for me. these spankings are THE WORST. He worked very hard to break this habit 3 years ago, he has NO tolerance for regression in this area.
8. Overuse of screen time, texting after bedtime, reading on phone when I wake up at night.
9. Disrespect: including but not limited to, tuning out while he talks, interrupting, correcting him in public, whining, arguing, nagging over a honey do item, snippy tone of voice, masturbating without permission, failing to address him properly.
10. Losing keys or debit card. Surefire sign I need help shutting down the noise and prioritizing tasks. Not a guaranteed spanking, but a discussion. If I haven’t told him I’m feeling overwhelmed and then this starts happening, he’ll paddle for sure.