taetae-tea:

SO I have this dilemma

I am seeing this guy, he’s like tall, buff and just an angel. I think I can honestly say that I feel a deep connection with him. We’ve been seeing each other for 2 months now and I, like the unsure gal I am, asked what we are.

He said it felt like a relationship, but without a title. Then I asked him why he hasn’t asked me yet and he told me it wouldn’t matter since it already feels like a relationship. So it basicly is a relationship, but without a title??? For my this ‘dating’-phase means more of a try-out if the two of us will actually work (and it does). The change from 'dating’ to a relationship shows me that it’s steady and I can rely on him, idk. I really just want a steady relationship, not 'some kind of’ relationship. Or maybe I’m just a bit old-fashioned in this matter.

So I don’t really know what to do, because he sounds pretty sure of himself at this point and maybe I’m wrong. He is really good for me though, so I don’t know if this matter is important enough to make a point of.

SO, anyone here that knows what to do (or maybe don’t do) with this?

Thank you all for your replies, I’ve decides what to do. I’m going to talk it over with him again and if he doesn’t co-operate I will go away :). I don’t need more toxic ass people in my life. I know I’m always trying my best to not overthink stuff or that I shouldn’t get mad over certain things. But this time I think I’ve the right to say what I want.

What did we learn? Men are stupid like usual and we don’t always need to accept it

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA MANS GOT BOXED LIKE A FISH LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOO

John needs to learn to stop staring at the sun