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■ any planet (sun/moon/mercury/venus/mars) in the 4th house makes them feel comfortable around each other. they might even remind you of someone in your actual family, so it’s very easy to get along but also can be triggering if you’re not used to that kind of familiarity. it can definitely create an emotional attachment making you depend a lot on the other person but feels like you’re on good hands.

□ pluto square venus creates a lot of sexual tension between the two. Pluto becomes very possessive over the venus person, and there can be a lot of jealousy going on, even if they are not together, the pluto person would act as if the venus person is theirs. Pluto tends to be very lowkey about their feelings too so one would rarely notice.

■ mars in the 10th house overlay - usually the type of couple that are known to be arguing all the time. the 10th house talks about reputation, status, career and work, and being the capricorn house, stability is also a main thing here. This is a couple that put on a show for others in a good or a bad way, but are always there for each other no matter what. Sex is very passionate and loud, and long-lasting. and just like every other aspect in a relationship, it keeps getting better and better over time. they also tend to push each other to grow in their careers and personal life style. and if you’re not ready for that, it can be a bit too much.

□ mars in the 11th house overlay - will try out any s3x position. Usually the mars person takes the lead on this one and wants to try out anything with the house person, bc the house person gives off that kind of vibe. Not only sexually but in any way there is, it could be the 1st time that you’d do anything, mars wants to experience that and the house person will give it to them. there is also a lot of freedom inside this relationship, of course there’s a lot of feelings but jealousy is rarely expressed by both parties so that it does not disturb the harmony.

■ mars in the 6th house overlay - Mars sees the house person as someone they can rely on, someone they can look up to at times, and are usually the couple that are always motivating each other to do better. Eating and sleeping habits, everything comes to play here, health is very important. S3x here is a way to release stress, to just shut the brain for a little bit and focus on the feeling. Hygiene is also a huge player here. You’d find this couple doing it in the shower or after just got out of the shower. Mars usually takes care of the house person and is willing to please in any way. They usually fantasice about each other when doing the most ordinary non sexual activities.

□ mars in the 12th house overlay - be careful! from the house person perspective, there’s a lot of confusion at times. mars does not seem to understand the 12th house true intentions and viceversa, but still mars wants to be present for the other person and usually takes the lead. most people find this a little overwhelming because it envolves so many feelings to be able to enjoy this relationship. s3x here is out of this world once both are ready not only physically but mentally and emotionally. you can really feel how you merge into each other, suck on each others energy and become one after every interaction. that’s what you should be careful, because not everyone is comfortable being vulnerable. you become very in tune with one another to the point where you can feel their pain, and it stays with you everywhere you go.

■ venus/mars in your 1st house are very critical towards your looks and image. In some ways they like the way you are perceived and how you dress, and would find you attractive but are also the types to let you know your flaws. Very superficial. For starting relationships, it’s great bc they would compliment the sht out of you but then the more you let them see, the comfortable they feel making “honest” comments about your body.

□ moon in the 2nd house will try to fulfill that emotional side of the relationship by giving material things. They’d spoil one another when having a bad day or when they had a bad argument, the way to fix things would be through gifts or money.

■ when mars conjuncts sun, mars wants to get with the sun person in any kind of way possible. There’s a lot of sexual tension bc mars adores sun energy and they notice the sun person right away, so they dont stop chasing after them.

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The Dangers of 12th House Synastry

Honestly, this is one of the hardest aspects to have in synastry… I’ve had this placement with someone before, and it was one of the most emotionally scarring experiences i’ve been through.

Whilst in an active connection, these placements may experience a newfound type of love. This is unlike any other type of love one can truly experience, especially if there’s 12th house- Venus/Sun/Moon aspects. It’s like the planet person will literally haunt the house person. When in contact, the house person may experience prophetic dreams of this person, and realistic daydreams. The mental and psychic connection these two placements have is truly incredible, it’s otherworldly, spiritual and indescribable. One really has to experience this synastry to understand what I’m talking about. The best way I can put it, is two people transcending into the spirit realm. Often Twin Flames/Past Life connections have this placement. The planet person may feel completely understood by the house person, and there’s a sense of familiarity on behalf of the planet person. The planet person may have felt that they knew the house person before, or have met them- even if this is the first time they’re ever meeting. It’s scary.


This connection is INTENSE, it’s all-consuming, passionate and could quite literally drive one to the brink of madness. Both placements could feel as though they don’t understand why they feel so passionately for this person, even if they barely know anything about each other, they get hooked onto each other FAST. Obsessiveness is really common in these connections. Spending a lot of time around each other could prove to be draining, but also recharging? It’s like one is experiencing many polarities and swings of emotions. One minute it’s hate, the other it’s love. Almost always, these connections have to end, and this is because the magnetism and attraction between one another is almost unbearable. They need to get close to each other, but no amount of closeness could prove to satisfy either of them.

Unfortunately, when things inevitably end between these two placements, the real haunting process begins. The 5D connection is activated. These placements are always exchanging psychic messages in the astral-plane. Even though they may be physically separated, their highest selves are in union. In the 3D however, both parties experience some serious grieving, the best way I can compare this pain is like losing a close family member or a beloved family pet. It’s as though one another has died, and the pain can become even more unbearable, and this is where most people break- emotionally and mentally. It’s as though their soul is literally being cut into tiny pieces. The synchronities from the universe is amplified, you may start seeing each other’s names everywhere, angel numbers, even lookalikes, and the dreams… don’t even get me started on those. It’s like the universe is literally directing you back to each other. Everything reminds you of them. This is why this placement is so dangerous, it’s genuinely not for the weak. Personally, I thought I was hallucinating or seeing things, the signs and messages from the universe were literally bombarding me, and the signs were scarily specific. There’s no rest when these placements are in separation, everything is disrupted- eating patterns, sleep, regular routines, scheduled events. It’s like nothing is working without this person anymore.

However, although things inevitably end, they are almost always drawn back to each other. Once these placements collide, it’s almost impossible to connect with someone else. No one else will ever truly understand you as best they do. This love is addictive. Once in reunion, these synastry placements feel cooled, everything is right in the world once again… till the rug is swept out beneath them again. This relationship is truly turbulent. You are being called to confront all past life karma, any internal traumas. You can no longer hide when you are with this person, all is bared to them- even if you have not verbally disclosed anything, energy is the common language between the two of you.

Whilst this synastry aspect is truly something INSANE, the outcome can also be determined by other placements in the natal/composite chart. It’s just that even if other placements are positively aspected in synastry/composite, this placement can overshadow everything else. This energy is POTENT.


Anyways, I hope this was another insightful and intriguing post for you guys! Hope you learnt something new! Feedback is *always* welcome down below, make sure to like/reblog/follow for more content! Thank you guys!


-Starlight

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The Truth of 8th House Synastry

Gosh,INTENSE DOES NOT EVEN BEGIN TO COVER THIS SYNASTRY ASPECT.In synastry these placements may feel extreme possession over each other, more so the House person than the planet, or if it’s House/House synastry then the possession element is amplified twice-fold. These placements can really struggle to let each other go.

Co-dependency is a common theme in these type of relationships.

No matter how many times they separate, these placements are*always*called back to each other. Pluto is the ruler of the 8th house, so these placements may go through really transformative experiences together, and usually it’s so intricate that it would only make sense to the two of them. If other people were to hear of these experiences, it would almost seem untrue. In synastry, these placements really have the ability to shape each other. More often than not, these changes are actually quite positive. People often fear this synastry aspect, when in reality, it does more good than harm. Similar to the, 12th House Synastry you simply cannot hide when you are with this person. However, the planet person is more able to withhold information rather than the House person. The 8th House can also be about illusions as Pluto’s energies are overlorded by Hades- who was notorious for his trickery in the story of Persephone. Everything may seem to be out in the open on the Planet persons side, but the House person soon realises how little they know about the Planet person.

Eventually, the Planet person cannot hide/withhold information for long. Pluto really forces these couples to surrender their ego’s. Pluto transcends beyond the barrier of ego, and goes straight to the higher self of the individual. Which is why this placement can be super emotional and deep. You can no longer act out of the self, you must consider your partner in synastry. By ignoring each other’s core needs, you will only begin the karmic cycle once again, and cause even more pain. The best way I can visually describe this, is tying each other’s souls with an invisible chord of light. Your energies intermingle, and God is it a beautiful sight to witness. The pure bliss and euphoria experienced by these partners is better than any high a drug could give you.

Emotions are heightened when these aspects are in synastry, Pluto really loves getting to the bottom of everything- this occurs so that the soul-merging process can begin. Once again, Soulmates/Twin Flames may share this synastry aspect. The planet person may feel as though they own the House person, and the House person can really penetrate the Spirit of the Planet person. There’s almost zero emotional-privacy in this aspect. These people share their own private emotional and transformative space in the spirit realm. When they sleep, they may ascend to this space and astral-project together or have shared dreams/dreams with uncanny similarities. Everything is tied together between these placements at a core-soul-foundational level.

These placements were brought together to teach each other a critical lesson, and as all things in the Underworld- this comes at a cost. The cost is usually karmic in nature. Great pain can be experienced just as equally as great love, but this is necessary in order for the true soul-merging to occur. Just like in the story of Persephone and Hades, Persephone was tricked/manipulated into coming to the Underworld, all because of the generational karma brought to her by her mother, Demeter. After the cost of this karma was paid, Persephone voluntarily chose to remain in the underworld because she had fallen in love with Hades. Once the karma is cleared out, the depth of this love is truly unmatched.

The soul-merging stage, ugh this is honestly the best part, because unlike 12th House Synastry, a reward can almost be guaranteed, and this is sharing your true selves with one another. This happens when all karma is cleared out, and the ego is completely surrendered. At this stage, the synastry aspect allows for these partners to connect in the 5D and 3D. They don’t even have to be dreaming to connect in the 5D, all it requires is a glance at each other, or even more passionately, some sexual intercourse. The sexual chemistry between these couples transcends the barrier of time,humanity and all systems created within this dimension/Earth. It is otherworldly, and lacks any element of humanity. This is purely a spiritual experience. This is pure ecstasy and euphoria. It is a purely sensory experience. You can physically feel the spirit of this person, and God is it blissful. You are connected at the core level, constantly exchanging telepathic messages. The love here is unconditional, nothing could taint or ruin/destroy this soul-merge. You are both vibrating at a much higher frequency than humanity. This bond echoes throughout the universe. When in union, these partners are constantly surrounded by their spirit guides and angels, even the Universe itself oversees the connection. All human constructs simply do not apply in this unique experience.

This synastry aspect is a blessing and a challenge all in one.It requires persistence and divine timing, but the reward is worth this beautiful enigma.

That’s all for this A-M-A-Z-I-N-G synastry aspect. I hope it was informative and insightful. As always like/follow/reblog for more content! Feedback is *always* welcomed down below!


-Starlight

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