#house overlays
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Based on my personal experiences and things I’ve read and heard.
■ someone’s Mars in your 7th house makes them want to rush into relationships w you. They might see you as an their ideal partner.
□ venus&mars conjunction: the Mars person is the one that approaches/makes the first move but venus is the one seducing all the way.
■ mars&moon trine/conjunction: is a baby maker aspect! Mars could even dream about having a baby with the moon person.
□ your 5th house is the you in the beginning of relationships and dating style (first dates, first kisses) while your 8th house shows the you when feeling the real connection, it shows your kinks, what you like sexually and how you like it.
■ someone’s moon in your 8th house can be felt as too much for the moon person. It’s an intimidating aspect because there’s always something frightening about opening up to the house person. This could also indicate obsession from the house person (mostly).
□ the house that your venus and mars are in says a lot about who are you attracted to (ex. Your venus is in the 11th house, your crush has a venus or mars in aquarius, and so on.)
■ moon&ascendant conjunction: these people have an undeniable attraction. You may not know why you like that person but you do…
□ you can look at a man’s moon and venus to know what type of gal he likes. And for women is mostly moon and mars.
■ someone’s mars in your 2nd house might really like your voice. Also, they can be very blunt when commenting on your appearance, this could either be in a positive or negative way.
□ venus&mars opposition: creates a sexual attraction between these two. Mars could even daydream about having sex w venus. But venus feels it just as much.
■ pluto&venus square: can be a little scary. It brings obsession and possessiveness from Pluto. Lots of jealousy!!!
□ someone’s venus in your 3rd house shares info about their love life with you so easily. They might enjoy you giving them advice.
■ moon&moon conjunction is beautiful♡ these two understand each other on an emotional level. This aspect can even make these people like each other right away. There’s something about them that makes you feel comfortable.
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■ any planet (sun/moon/mercury/venus/mars) in the 4th house makes them feel comfortable around each other. they might even remind you of someone in your actual family, so it’s very easy to get along but also can be triggering if you’re not used to that kind of familiarity. it can definitely create an emotional attachment making you depend a lot on the other person but feels like you’re on good hands.
□ pluto square venus creates a lot of sexual tension between the two. Pluto becomes very possessive over the venus person, and there can be a lot of jealousy going on, even if they are not together, the pluto person would act as if the venus person is theirs. Pluto tends to be very lowkey about their feelings too so one would rarely notice.
■ mars in the 10th house overlay - usually the type of couple that are known to be arguing all the time. the 10th house talks about reputation, status, career and work, and being the capricorn house, stability is also a main thing here. This is a couple that put on a show for others in a good or a bad way, but are always there for each other no matter what. Sex is very passionate and loud, and long-lasting. and just like every other aspect in a relationship, it keeps getting better and better over time. they also tend to push each other to grow in their careers and personal life style. and if you’re not ready for that, it can be a bit too much.
□ mars in the 11th house overlay - will try out any s3x position. Usually the mars person takes the lead on this one and wants to try out anything with the house person, bc the house person gives off that kind of vibe. Not only sexually but in any way there is, it could be the 1st time that you’d do anything, mars wants to experience that and the house person will give it to them. there is also a lot of freedom inside this relationship, of course there’s a lot of feelings but jealousy is rarely expressed by both parties so that it does not disturb the harmony.
■ mars in the 6th house overlay - Mars sees the house person as someone they can rely on, someone they can look up to at times, and are usually the couple that are always motivating each other to do better. Eating and sleeping habits, everything comes to play here, health is very important. S3x here is a way to release stress, to just shut the brain for a little bit and focus on the feeling. Hygiene is also a huge player here. You’d find this couple doing it in the shower or after just got out of the shower. Mars usually takes care of the house person and is willing to please in any way. They usually fantasice about each other when doing the most ordinary non sexual activities.
□ mars in the 12th house overlay - be careful! from the house person perspective, there’s a lot of confusion at times. mars does not seem to understand the 12th house true intentions and viceversa, but still mars wants to be present for the other person and usually takes the lead. most people find this a little overwhelming because it envolves so many feelings to be able to enjoy this relationship. s3x here is out of this world once both are ready not only physically but mentally and emotionally. you can really feel how you merge into each other, suck on each others energy and become one after every interaction. that’s what you should be careful, because not everyone is comfortable being vulnerable. you become very in tune with one another to the point where you can feel their pain, and it stays with you everywhere you go.
■ venus/mars in your 1st house are very critical towards your looks and image. In some ways they like the way you are perceived and how you dress, and would find you attractive but are also the types to let you know your flaws. Very superficial. For starting relationships, it’s great bc they would compliment the sht out of you but then the more you let them see, the comfortable they feel making “honest” comments about your body.
□ moon in the 2nd house will try to fulfill that emotional side of the relationship by giving material things. They’d spoil one another when having a bad day or when they had a bad argument, the way to fix things would be through gifts or money.
■ when mars conjuncts sun, mars wants to get with the sun person in any kind of way possible. There’s a lot of sexual tension bc mars adores sun energy and they notice the sun person right away, so they dont stop chasing after them.
to clear up some things i’ve seen on the dash recently -
1. 10th house represents In-Laws. Ruled by Capricorn/Saturn, the great In Law lol. Represents scrutiny and standards.
2. Synastry overlays are felt by both planet person and house person, but in different ways. Often representing give and take relationship of that planet’s energy (planet person gives, house person takes).
I love all the astro blogs I follow, but pleeeease stop making stuff up when countless professional astrologers before us have already delineated these concepts.
