A really frustrating thing is when an older person is probably neurodivergent and doesn’t realize it, and would be unspeakably insulted if you suggested as much, but would likely be a lot happier and easier to get along with if they had a little more self-awareness.
Bonus points if, any time you mention things that you struggle with thanks to your own neurodivergency, they immediately dismiss you because “everyone has that, you just need to deal with it”. And you just sort of look at the camera and sigh.
