Please understand that I am not supporting the messages she sent. I acknowledge that the messages she sent were wrong, so does she. But can you let us rest please. I am not victim blaming. I spent the past week or so worrying about what happened to her, and then this happened and I didn’t even know she was the anon.
Y'all immediately knew it was her. Because you know that you purposefully made assumptions.
Part of me feels like you aren’t telling the whole story, but from what I understand, you hurt her.
It doesn’t justify the messages, especially not to the other blogs that didn’t. But please note, that ignoring someone and sending them a message that tells them to stop tagging you and using you for “clout” when she was trying to make friends, is rude. And then acting as though you have no idea why she’d be upset, is also rude.
I don’t think that someone being creepily nice, or “obviously” being fake for sending people encouraging messages, gives you the right to assume things about her, and then all but scoff when she deactivates.
And then sit here and act like she’s just jealous of your skill and that her actions over the course of an hour or so, somehow crosses a line with you, doesn’t excuse the time you spent ignoring her and blocking her for nothing but kindness and them exposing her for no reason and playing the victim when she comes back because she’s hurting. She wanted to be your friend.
Y'all mocked her.
I feel awful for all the blogs that received the message, which was copy pasted, and wrong.
And barely more than a couple of sentences doesn’t make what you three and @nafeary did completely innocent
TW suicide and nafeary-typical cursing
…are you fucking blaming us for getting upset over asks telling us to kill ourselves? You wanna hear my part of the story? Fine okay, I’ll be open about this since I apparently have to justify why I’m mad at someone telling me and my friends to kill themselves
First of tho, we didn’t immediately know it was her lmao. What made you assume that? In case you didn’t notice, we were a bit preoccupied with looking at our hate asks. Some of the receivers are already suicidal. Writer-Akihiko was unable to continue talking to us because the suicide comment shocked him too much. We had other things on our mind than theorizing who tf wrote that.
If there’s one thing I hate, it’s fake people. And that’s just how venus-writes appeared to me—and my gut feeling about whether a person’s vibe is good or bad has never failed me. So I just chose not to interact with her. It’s not rude to ignore someone, you’re choosing who you want to interact with. Because news flash, you’re not obligated to interact with someone just because they sent you a message or smth.
And yes, I’ve ignored an ask of hers. Her telling me that I’m one of her favorite blogs even tho she has never interacted with it prior to that just didn’t sit right with me. You don’t have to like my work, you don’t have to follow me etc. but I just think you’d want to do all these things if you genuinely like someone’s work. So I chose to ignore it.
“She wanted to be your friend” okay, but I didn’t. I’m not going to enter a relationship with someone if I can’t reciprocate their feelings. I’m not the type of person to act like I like you when I don’t. So this is my side of the story. Idgaf whether you think that makes me a horrible person.
Also, we aren’t acting like we have no idea why she’s upset. Because she has no reason to be upset. Some people didn’t want to befriend you? Sucks, but you’ll find someone you can vibe with. You felt insulted? Okay, sucks, but get over it. People are you calling you out for plagiarizing their works and telling them to commit suicide? That’s kinda what happens I’m sorry to break it to ya.
And this is where I’m getting really fucking upset with you, and I’m starting to question whether you know two shits about what is right and wrong.
“Playing the victim.”
Ya know what? Fuck you, I’m so fucking done with your attitude. Get it into your thick skull that we are indeed the victims here. Not her. She’s merely getting the backlash she deserves. WE fucking received the damn asks, not her. Oh boohoo we mocked her, SHE TOLD US TO DIE. Yes, I’m calling her trash. How is that mocking if it’s the truth?
You know that this fucking is? She’s one step away from being a murderer. Look at you defending that. This is revolting on so many levels.
Ignoring her was a choice we did to keep things real and civil. What she chose to do could have potentially destroyed our lives. I’m incredibly thankful for everyone who is there to remind me that hate anons spout nothing but bullshit and don’t even deserve to call themself humans because their intelligence, basic reason, and courtesy are non-existent. But not everyone has that.
Stop fucking defending them as though they were a 3 year old kid who can’t tell whether pushing a kid down a flight of stairs is immoral or not.
(TW: hate anon, death threat, cyberbullying, bullying, suicide)
below are some hate asks my friends & i have received, seemingly from the same user. please take note of the wording used.
a zoomed-in version so it’s easier to read:
and this is the one i got:
yall see this? so let’s establish the fact that this user (here’s the link to their blog so you can block & report them) is most likely sending the exact same VERBATIM hate ask to various people in the ikemen fandom. and obviously we do not fuck with that in this household.
now let’s expose the other problematic thing they’re doing:
STEALING PEOPLE’S WORKS.
i’m going to comb through their blog so you don’t have to, expose the works they’ve stolen, and include the links to the ones which i can find the ORIGINALlinks to
EXHIBIT 1:
this is a theo x f!reader x arthur NSFW threesome that my friend @writer-akihiko wrote. here, take a look:
the repost, that somehow changed it into a mozart x reader as if that would cover up the fact that it was literally stolen word for word, posted ALSO on 25 feb 2021
the repost, ALSO posted on 25 feb 2021 (from this point on, please assume they’re all posted on 25 feb 2021 unless otherwise stated bc i’m getting tired)
there’s way more that they’ve stolen but i’m going to stop here bc i think i’ve proven my point.
anyway, we do NOT condone sending hate asks AND stealing work in this fandom. with the receipts i have, there really is no room for doubt. if the links even are working (bc they stopped working for me when i was busy combing through their blog for dirt), feel free to verify the facts for yourself.
PLEASE REBLOG THIS TO SIGNAL BOOST + REPORT & BLOCK THEM.
if you have any additional dirt please DM them to me. let’s keep the ikemen fandom a safe, wholesome, lovely place, yeah? let the trash take itself out <3
yes, it does matter. this isn’t an issue of ✨ opinion ✨. things that are about opinions are “who’s your favourite suitor?”, “which route did you like the best?”, “did you like the recent event?” and so on.
matters pertaining to MORALITY, attacking real people with real words that can cause real harm, are NOT. some people who were sent those asks are actively suicidal. what if that ask had triggered them and they really decided to take their lives? you still wanna sit there and call this a matter of “opinion” when people’s REAL LIVES can be affected?
this isn’t about trashing that person’s reputation (not that they ever had much to begin with, or that it was ever really flattering to her, but i digress). the reason why i made the original post was to raise awareness in the fandom so people know who to avoid when navigating tumblr in order to keep themselves, their works, and their friends safe.
the reason why i and several others have been calling her and anyone defending her out is bc like i said, this is a matter of RIGHT OR WRONG. if you defend someone who told innocent people to kill themselves, you’re validating theirwrong immoral actions. you are giving them the green light to do it again and to more people. do you want that? do you want more people to be told their work is shit and they should kill themselves? do you want those already affected by the first round of hate asks to receive even more?
and about this ‘bad feeling’ you speak of: it was already created when she decided to send those hate asks and steal other people’s work. we, the victims, are rightfully defending ourselves, our friends & our works. if it gives her ‘pleasure’ to see people fighting over this, that’s a matter between her and the therapist she is hopefully seeing. but i won’t ever EVER stop trying to protect my works and my friends in this fandom, period.
any other doubts you’d like me to clear up, or can i actually catch a fucking break for once?
(TW: Suicide, Bullying, Cyberbullying)
Ok so I haven’t spoken up about this until now but I 100% agree with @delicateikemenmemes.
No matter what you are going through, no matter how painful life may be for you, there is NO. FUCKING. EXCUSE. For telling people to killthemselves. There is no excuse for dragging someone down so low to the point where they feel like they should leave the Earth and never return. You never know how badly your words can affect someone. Yes we all make dumb decisions and say stupid shit that we don’t mean, but going out of your way to not only steal people’s work, something that they had worked so hard on, but also insult them and tell them to kill themselves is absolutely wrong and beyond heinous.
Luckily I have not received any hate from said anon, but to those who have, please continue to live. Please continue to do what you love. You are cherished and talented and deserve so much love and respect. Never stop being your beautiful selves and sharing your amazing talents with all of us ✨
