#tw loss
CW: Loss, bereavement
I was hoping to have more information before I made this post, so apologies for that. The news is starting to seep onto the platform though, as people share tributes as a way to process their own grief, so I think it’s time.
@siriussly-serious (he/they), mostly known here as Jay but also as Blu, Royale (in drag) and Jaxon, has passed away. Little is known at this point, other than that he was missing since Monday (10th May), reported as missing to the police on Wednesday (12th May) and found yesterday (15th May). This isn’t the right place for speculation, so I will have more to say when I have more information.
Although he hasn’t been active on the platform for a long time, Jay was a much loved member of the HP RP community. He was particularly an inspiration for LGBTQ+ creators and POC, going out of his way to encourage and promote anyone who felt they weren’t good enough or didn’t belong. He had so much love, which he handed out freely and sincerely to anyone and everyone who needed it. He created Found, a ridiculously ambitious project which I was privileged enough to be a part of, and which he was unfortunately unable to see through the way he desperately wanted to.
Jay would want me to tell you he was 6ft7, everyone was welcome to the gun show and the cheaper and higher percentage your rose wine is, the better. He wouldn’t want me to gush about what an amazing singer, performer, drag artist, RPer, artist, writer, Muddy, creative and friend he was, but tough shit mate, come and stop me. He loved cheap rose, gin, rum, milkshakes, white chocolate, Beyonce, drag kings, queers being queer, people living their best life, Hamilton, cuddles, sandalwood incense and salt lamps (but not when he wasn’t allowed to lick them). So if you want to celebrate him in your own way, there’s some ideas for you. Just stay away from whisky and any other kind of chocolate. No thank you, ma’am.I was lucky enough to spend a lot of time in person with Jay over the last 3 years, but to those who never met him, your grief is just as valid. Your friendship was real, your love and loss is real. He loved you, he was proud of you every day you went out into a world that tries to tell you you’re broken or not enough. You are enough, and Dad is watching over you.
Jay had a large online presence, particularly in the drag king community, so I’m sure there will be some online tributes and possibly events. I will reblog this post adding information as I get it, including any tributes and donation information for those who can and would like to.
Rest in Power, Jay. It won’t be the same without you.
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hi guys, i know it’s been a while (since simblreen to be exact) & my last real (as in not queue’d) post was the giveaway & i’d like to clear a couple things up.
i would like to put a TW beforehand, though.
Please do not read ahead if pregnancyor pregnancy loss is a trigger for you!!!
If you aren’t able to read ahead: I had personal matters come up, but the winner was messaged & given their gift. I might do another giveawaay in January to make up for taking so long to let you guys know and stuff. I’d also like to give another chance since a lot of people missed the opportunity (according to my dms at lesat) ANYWAYS.
onward lol
- the winner was contacted & they have received their gift.
- i ghosted tumblr, as well as everything else aside from my bed, because i found out i was pregnant before i had decided to do the giveaway & found out after that that i had miscarried. my chances of getting pregnant are slim to none & if you’ve ever seen any of my personal posts talking about it, it bothers me a lot. so i was kind of stupid excited. lol.
i constantly wished i was that woman who was able to BE a woman & have children. so it immensely affected me. i didn’t pick up my computer but once or twice after finding out & one of the times was to actually message the winner since i felt bad about ghosting. but.
i do want to say that i am sorry, everything is ok now, & i love you all
It’s hard to think it’s already been 9+ months without you, but you’re still in my thoughts nearly every day.
Love you and miss you
CW: Loss, bereavement
I was hoping to have more information before I made this post, so apologies for that. The news is starting to seep onto the platform though, as people share tributes as a way to process their own grief, so I think it’s time.
@siriussly-serious (he/they), mostly known here as Jay but also as Blu, Royale (in drag) and Jaxon, has passed away. Little is known at this point, other than that he was missing since Monday (10th May), reported as missing to the police on Wednesday (12th May) and found yesterday (15th May). This isn’t the right place for speculation, so I will have more to say when I have more information.
Although he hasn’t been active on the platform for a long time, Jay was a much loved member of the HP RP community. He was particularly an inspiration for LGBTQ+ creators and POC, going out of his way to encourage and promote anyone who felt they weren’t good enough or didn’t belong. He had so much love, which he handed out freely and sincerely to anyone and everyone who needed it. He created Found, a ridiculously ambitious project which I was privileged enough to be a part of, and which he was unfortunately unable to see through the way he desperately wanted to.
Jay would want me to tell you he was 6ft7, everyone was welcome to the gun show and the cheaper and higher percentage your rose wine is, the better. He wouldn’t want me to gush about what an amazing singer, performer, drag artist, RPer, artist, writer, Muddy, creative and friend he was, but tough shit mate, come and stop me. He loved cheap rose, gin, rum, milkshakes, white chocolate, Beyonce, drag kings, queers being queer, people living their best life, Hamilton, cuddles, sandalwood incense and salt lamps (but not when he wasn’t allowed to lick them). So if you want to celebrate him in your own way, there’s some ideas for you. Just stay away from whisky and any other kind of chocolate. No thank you, ma’am.I was lucky enough to spend a lot of time in person with Jay over the last 3 years, but to those who never met him, your grief is just as valid. Your friendship was real, your love and loss is real. He loved you, he was proud of you every day you went out into a world that tries to tell you you’re broken or not enough. You are enough, and Dad is watching over you.
Jay had a large online presence, particularly in the drag king community, so I’m sure there will be some online tributes and possibly events. I will reblog this post adding information as I get it, including any tributes and donation information for those who can and would like to.
Rest in Power, Jay. It won’t be the same without you.
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(( OOC: Hey peeps! I was just reminded that everyone was promised a vlog once I reached 20k on IG, and I’m past that now, so here it is! :D
Jess, Jay, Ami and I went to The Cauldron in London for Jay’s birthday… and we decided to film it. ;) So here’s a fun vlog/review from our outing! ))
Wonderful memories with a truly beautiful person.
We’ll miss you, Jay. Rest in power.
I’m utterly devestated at the loss of such an incredible human, who as you can see, lit up every person he came into contact with.
I’m so grateful for these memories, and many more. Thank you Jay, for lighting up my life the way you did.
