#women against feminism
–Feminism creates a toxic atmosphere for boys.
–Feminism has succeeded in altering the academic environment and criteria to help women excel at the expense of men.
–Feminism was instrumental in pushing for VAWA which assumes men guilty, and gives the state the power to press charges against him without the wife’s consent.
–Feminism demonizes masculinity.
–Feminism creates false statistics to make men look like criminals.
–Feminism creates a hostile work and academic environment by allowing women to act sexual and flirtatious, while giving those women the opportunity to have any man charged with sexual harassment if his flirtation bothers her.
–Feminism has granted women the power to point her finger and have a man found guilty until proven innocent of rape.
–Feminism has attacked and corrupted the video game culture, comic book culture, atheist movement, tech industry, and every other space that was formally male dominated, by forcing these spaces to be a “safe space for women”.
–Feminism creates womens study courses and womens groups on college campus while shutting down any efforts for men to do the same.
–Feminism has created a culture where the majority of welfare is paid to women (at the expense of men’s taxes).
–Feminism was instrumental in creating an instant divorce society that practically guarantees the woman entitlement to everything her husband owns.
–Feminism has demonized men; teaching the world to be afraid of the male sex.
–Feminism, and its influence on divorce court, has put countless men in jail for his inability to pay child support for a child he is not even entitled to see.
–Feminism has created socialist entitlement programs such as gender quotas, and womens-only job training, to advantage women over men.
–Feminism has created a society of double standards where it’s always a woman’s choice, and a man’s responsibility.
–Feminism teaches little girls to hate and distrust males.
–Feminism routinely insists that women are marginalized, and that male suffering either doesn’t exist or is trivial.
–Feminism has created a women-are-victims mentality in western women, making them incapable of seeing male suffering or male disadvantage.
–Feminism has created a society so toxic and anti-male that the male suicide rate is 5 times that of women, the prisons are filled with innocent men falsely accused or too poor to pay their child support.
When you mention any inequality men face or that their suicide rate is 5 times that of women, they sing “cry me a river” and post pictures of themselves wearing “I bathe in mens tears” shirts, as a way to mock and laugh at male suffering, exclaiming it’s either not there, it’s superficial, or that they just don’t care, and men are being big babies.
Any human being in the first world that thinks women are disadvantaged to men, is a selfish self-centered loathsome creature who lacks empathy, a sociopath, and should be distrusted immediately and avoided.
While arguing a feminist on twitter, she said this “when was the last time you felt afraid to look a woman in the eye walking a street at night?”
I reminded her that men are more likely to be victims of violence than women. She tweets back “that wasn’t an answer to my question.”
Alright then, I’ll try to answer it like this:
Yes, I have been occasionally afraid to make eye contact with a woman. Drunk angry bi-polar bitches on the subway, running their mouths and getting violent. I did my best to avoid her gaze. Flirtatious bitches with violent boyfriends; I kept my distance, because I didn’t want to become the tool she uses to trigger her boyfriend’s violent jealousy for thrills. If a woman starts acting violent, or threatening, I fear it just as much as a man, because if I hit her back, men will swarm on me, cops will arrest me, at least with a man I get to fight back and defend myself.
But for the most part, I’ll admit, when I lived in the city, it was almost exclusively men I feared would attack me.
Men do in fact commit most of the public violence (though domestic it’s about 50/50).
What troubles me is @Garbage_Person making the insistence that to avoid saying I fear making eye contact with women, somehow validates her claim that WOMEN are victims.
Does she just not get it? Regardless of who is doing the perpetration, men are more likely to be victims than women, but in her mind women are the victims.
It is a common theme in feminism; circumstances affecting men far more than women, yet feminists make it all about women. This is due to the dynamics of how their bigoted mindset works. In life, women are granted the victim identity, men are granted the perpetrator identity.
To understand how their sickness works, picture this:
Two men shoot each other dead, the feminists pull out their check list, and mark down that two men perpetrated murder. But because “male” does not fall in the victim category, they do not mark down that any man was a victim of anything.
A man and woman shoot each other dead, they mark down that a woman was the victim of a shooting, a man was the perpetrator, but they do not mark down that the woman was also a perpetrator, and they do not mark down that a man was a victim. If two women shoot each other, they mark down that two women were victims today, but do not place either of the two women in the perpetrator category.
Only women are victims, only men are perpetrators, this is how they see the world. That’s why they’re feminists. That’s why all they ever do is bitch about inconveniences women face, and deny male suffering. Male victimization, male suffering, it just isn’t real in their mind, it’s blotted out by their neurotic driven bigotry.
This also explains why they can’t pickup on their every day double standards. They champion abortion as “a women’s issue” and “a woman’s right” and then bitch that in some countries, aborting female fetuses are far more common then the abortion of male fetuses, and they call this an injustice against women, they call it “gendercide”. Yet refuse to acknowledge that the “murder and genocide” of these females, is only possible because of abortion; a thing they champion as a womens issue and right. And they completely blot out the part where it is women making the decision as to when to have these abortions.
This is a case where the perpetration by the female is blotted out of their brains, and only the gender of the victim matters.
but when it comes to something like violence against men, they blot out the gender of the victim, and count only the gender of the perpetrator.
and thus the “men are perpetrators women are victims” mentality is perpetuated. In the feminist arena, men don’t HAVE problems, men ARE problems.
How many decades has this cliche been around when sane people mocked feminism by saying: Women good; men bad.
Exactly, only women are victims only men are perpetrators.
I have no doubt this is how the minds of the German nazi’s worked: only Germans are victims only Jews are perpetrators. This would have been an essential way of rationalizing the mass murder of 6 million people who happen to be born to the wrong type of family.
I have no doubt the white nationalists pull the same mental gymnastics: “blacks rape white women, blacks steal and murder.”
But when you bring up that so do whites… it goes over their head. If you bring up the Klan “Kluxing” negros, they’d say “not all Klansmen are like that”.
Seeing “your kind” as only victims of “their kind”, and being unable to see perpetration by “your kind” against “their kind” is an essential staple of bigotry.
Feminists complain that women are war time victims, due to females getting raped. They conveniently overlook that a thousand times as many men were killed. But again, in their brains, there is no victim category for men, so it isn’t recognized.
Furthermore, her question, demanding an answer; not a comparison, is problematic for this reason:
What if a white guy says “as a white man, I fear making eye contact with black men, do you fear making eye contact with white men?”
and the black guy retorts “Hey I fear getting jumped by black men too! And most black violence is against black men!” and the white guy says “No, I said WHITE men, do you fear making eye contact with white men?”
Remember back in the 90’s when American violence was at an all time high, and so much of it was black violence? Remember the slogan “stop the black on black violence”?
Do you remember how there were people saying “Why not say ‘stop the violence’, or 'stop the black violence’, are you advocating for black on white violence?” because they just didn’t understand. Black violence was a serious problem back then (and to some extent still is) but what was being pointed out by that slogan is that whitey needs to chill, most of the black violence was against black people. And so those rappers that would end their concerts with “stop the black on black violence” were not denying problems were coming from blacks, they were perfectly willing to acknowledge the role of blacks in the perpetration; but they were also trying to remind the world, this is a problem that also affects “us” more than any other group.
Chris Rock did a comedy bit called “Blacks vs Niggers” where he comically pointed out it ain’t white people, it ain’t the media, it’s “niggers” that is fucking shit up. But he also made it clear, it’s “us” black people who are predominantly the victims of this shit. Imagine him just saying “Yeah I know you white people gotta deal with some of the problems blacks are causing, but before you start… sit down, shut up, give us blacks a chance to bitch about it first, since we’re primarily the ones who have to deal with it.”
And that is what I am trying to get through to this feminist. Yeah, men are violent, they do assault people more than women, but it’s men that have to deal with it; stop trying to make this all about you.
Rape, which is a type of assault, happens more from men on to women (unless you count prison, which would make men the primary victims of rape). But feminists focus on rape, the only type of assault that disproportionately affects them. They know if they bitch about assault in general, they’d have to go back to making up their fake statistics, or acknowledge that men are the majority victims.
She also dismisses the Male Tears meme:
“if you think "bathing in male tears” is sexist, you are a huge, crying baby.“
Says the woman representing an ideology that cries victim and rape culture and sexism because of rape jokes. So rape jokes is a reason for Feminists to get all bent out of shape and hold up signs saying "this is why I need feminism” but men doing the same with the “bathe in male tears” meme just need to man up and grow a pair… riiiiiight.
Let me just end with this little picture I made yesterday
