#worried and anxious but also pissed off

jesus christ what is with my parents/extended family and not telling us when they’re having serious medical problems

i just fucking called my mother with an innocuous question to find out that she’s currently in the ER being treated for sepsis(?!?!?!) which i JUST found out about, and then I called my aunt to find out more about THAT, and discovered that she is dealing with my uncle who is being tested for cancer!!!

like

FUCKING CHRIST, people, CAN YOU KEEP US IN THE LOOP EVEN A LITTLE BIT????