gymbunnycandiehart:I Want to Be a LightI have lots of purposes in life, many of which are being fulf

gymbunnycandiehart:

I Want to Be a Light

I have lots of purposes in life, many of which are being fulfilled in other ways outside of this blog.  But within this blog, I see an opportunity to have a fulfilling purpose.  And that is to be a light for other men/boys who are either curious or are passionate about being girly.  While it is true that some girlies prefer the fetish side and others are working their way into therapy and surgeries to become women, I find it is important to help boys find some sort of peace and contentment in a life of girliness.

I’m certainly not the girliest guy, either in dress or action.  That’s due in big part to my age and circumstances.  I often joke that I was born a generation or two too late.  But I do see that I can encourage others in their girliness or toward girliness.  If anything, I simply want girlies to know that they are special, they are human, they are real, they are loved, and that they don’t have to feel guilt, embarrassment, or pain because they’re feminine in a world that expects them to be something they are not.

Because of those things I said above, I won’t ever be the perfect example.  But I do think I can be a light.  I’m trying to light a way into a life of girliness that others can follow with me and beyond me.  I hope you’ll be such a light for others too.

I love you, girlies.  You’re making a difference!

CandieHart

Thank you CandieHeart!

I can most certainly relate to your words, having grown up in the 1950′s - 70′s.  Those were very different times compared to today.  I do believe each of our life’s becomes an influencer, an example, to those who see or read about us in the LGBTQ community and everyone else, even if we don’t want to be.  Let’s also remember our cisgender sisters we imitate and support the equality they have fought for over the long years.

“Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house.”  Matthew 5:15 (NIV)