#apostasy tag
My father continually told me about his list in life
- God
- My mother
- My brother & I
- Other family
- Friends
And today in therapy my therapist asked me how I would write that list. And I sat there and went…
I don’t want to.
I don’t want to have a static priority of all of the people in my life. My friends and family are all independently important to me and I do not want to explicitly value one above the other. I love them each on their own merit.
I especially don’t want to codify it. And tell them. How low they are on my priority list.