#apostasy tag

ungodlydandelion:

My father continually told me about his list in life

• God
• My mother
• My brother & I
• Other family
• Friends

And today in therapy my therapist asked me how I would write that list. And I sat there and went…

I don’t want to.

I don’t want to have a static priority of all of the people in my life. My friends and family are all independently important to me and I do not want to explicitly value one above the other. I love them each on their own merit.

I especially don’t want to codify it. And tell them. How low they are on my priority list.