#bad experiences

Back when I started rping, I started by email and I rped Sherlock to someone’s Moriarty. They knew my age (15) but they kept emailing me until I gave up and wrote smut with them. It’s been years, but I still think about it and it really disturbs me.

I regret becoming close with my long time rp partner. Every time I make new friends or new partners they get jealous. Because of the ooc drama I have no interest in the fandom anymore. Nor do I look at their muse the same way. I don’t even want to write with them.

I love fandoms. Fandoms are great… the people in fandoms however make me die on the inside… Especially large rp fandoms. I’ve turned my back on those fandoms rp blogs and have now started reinvesting my time in anime and manga; then seeking out those blogs.

People have to realize we are all humans here and we all make mistakes. If the person tries to apolgize and move on the most logical thing you could do would be to leave them alone and let them try again. After all humans have the possibility of learning with their errors. I find amazing this mob mentality and how a  group of roleplayers can make life a living hell for a single roleplayer just because of a small mistake. And insult the hell out of them and then turn around and pretend to be saints.

Honestly i came back recently and didnt know what vagueposting was until i accidentally made one but had to research myself to see that what i had written was not a rant but a vaguepost, no matter how well worded or intenddd to stay polite it was. I had been out of tumblr rp for a while not having feeling like it and honestly maybe i should have bcs maybe if people explained stuff before attacking others with insults such as calling the person ‘trash’ or 'attention seeking whore’  things could be better solved. But i guess its just me.