#bdsm resources

cherishedproperty:

To make this blog a bit easier to navigate, here is a (somewhat) brief list of my writings, sorted by topic. My full set of writings can be found here, with ask responses here and brilliant writing from others here. 

General D/s Mechanics

• D/s Hierarchy — and some updated thoughts
• Lean In — and some updated thoughts
• Ask: What are good “starting out” rules?
• Punishment
• Why I Use Safewords (Even With Trusted Partners)
• Things I Got Wrong about D/s
  
• Asks: Starting out in D/s (including a D/s 101ask)
• Asks: Why D/s is right for me

Submissive and Dominant Roles

• What Drives Dominance
• Power Exchange is My Orientation
• Submissive Does Not Mean Passive
• Submissives Abhor a Power Vacuum
• Needy
  
• The Double-Edged Sword of Brattiness
• The Little Girl and the Elephant
  
• Ask: Why I don’t call myself an alpha submissive

Long-Term D/s Relationships

• Meat-and-Potatoes D/s
• What Makes D/s Real
• D/s in Ordinary Life
• Let Go
  
• Ownership Without Hesitation
• Good Enough
• How a Submissive Leads
• Self-Care as Service
• Tell Me Why
  
• Asks: D/s with kids in the picture

D/s Relationships Struggles

• When It’s Hard
• Yours, Mine, Ours
• Benefit of the Doubt
• A Better Way
• Minimum Rule Compliance
• Balancing Act
  
• Asks: Working through D/s struggles

D/s Breakups

• When You Can’t
• Unowned
• Asks: Getting through D/s heartbreak

D/s Dating and Single Submissive Life

• The Uncompromising Submissive
• D/s Dating
• Responsibility, Not Privilege
• Red Flags for Dating as a Submissive 
• Asks: D/s dating (andmaintaining boundaries)
• Asks: Red flags for dating 

Sadism, Masochism and Spankings

• The Slow Unfurling of Sadism
• The Reluctant Masochist
• When I Say I Need a Spanking…
• Impact is Like a Symphony
• Maintenance
• Ask Me How
• The Point of Surrender
• The Fragile Place
• Ask: Pain as a form of connection

Sex and Kink

• No Such Thing As Vanilla
• He Makes Me Want to Promise Him Anything
  
• The Closet
• Becoming His Property
• Humiliation…Or Is It?
• Real Talk about Denial

I’m re-blogging this for two reasons

#1: To give it a signal boost, this is a great resource and anyone who is interested in becoming better at and more knowledgeable about D/s.

#2: I selfishly want to have a copy that I can easily find later.

pussymodsgalore 

A great number of useful links for those interested in BDSM but wanting more information. As this would require a lot of scrolling down to get past it for those not interested, I am simply linking to the Original Poster’s post HERE. Other different links for BDSM HEREandHERE.

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