What great advice for all the bimbos and b.i.t.s out there in bimbo-land! Every day, in every way, do everything you can to put great big smiles out into the world!!!
I’ll admit. I’m a sucker for Men strong enough to hold me up
I have always wanted to have a girl who was so excited to see me that she flew into my arms wrapping her legs around my chest as I caught her. I hope his would become one of our standard greetings.
I was talking with a submissive friend of mine, and she confessed that being picked up by a Man is really scary to her. I could not believe it, being picked up is supposed to make you feel safe and protected. What could there possibly be to feel scared about?
“It is kind of scary! So many unknowns…will he drop me? How long will I be up here? Will he accidentally walk me into a wall? Is he a sadist? How long will I be up here?!?!?” she said.
Our conversation went on from there but it occurred to me that being picked up is a great metaphor for D/s relationships and that these questions are exactly the sort of questions that a good and level headed submissive should ask before choosing her Dominant. Is this the sort of Man that you can trust? I
Is he strong enough not to drop you? Not necessarily physically strong but strong enough to be your Dom through the tough times and to support you.
How long will you be up there? What sort of relationship are you after? Bedroom sexy fun time only? 24/7 Total Power Exchange? Domestic Discipline? Vintage 50′s traditional gender roles? And how long will it last? Are you looking for a weekend only play partner? Do you need an ongoing boyfriend who will Dominate you during the afterwork hours? Do you want to give it a month trial period and renegotiate things from there? How long will you be up there?
Will He accidentally walk you into a wall? Well in this case the answer is “Yes”. Eventually, if it goes on long enough, sooner or later every Dom will make a mistake. (subs will make mistakes too but we are talking about Doms for now.) The question you should be asking is not IF He will accidentally walk you into a wall, but will He do everything He can not to? How will He behave when accidents do happen? Will He care for you? Is He a Man of strong enough character to change His behavior after an accident to prevent accidents from happening again in the future?
Is He a Sadist? Well that should definitely be something that you should know before getting involved with a Dom. Do you want a Sadist? Are you a masochist? Will He hurt you the way that you like to be hurt? Can He protect you the way that you need to be protected?
If He is the sort of Man that you can trust to pick you up and hold you, then that’s a good indicator that He is the sort of Man that you can trust to Dominate you.
Pretty and happy are two sides of the same coin. Don’t worry about what people might say if you show a little skin or what they might think if you’re always going out with a different guy every night of week. Happy girls are pretty girls and pretty girls are happy girls. That’s as far as your thought processes need to go. If you think that cute top will make you feel pretty, or if that cute boy will make you happy, then you already know what you need to do. Just follow your heart’s desires. Only your own inhibitions stand in the way. Let them go. Be pretty. Be happy.
I love @dreamsofbeingused but often her stuff is a tad too dark for my tastes. This however is spot on! Great advice for bimbos!
“Happy girls are pretty girls. Pretty girls are happy girls.” Let go and be pretty and happy!
