#bondage bunny
did a pallet challenge and decided to use the opportunity to bring back my old OCs Rigger and Bunny the fighting fetish duo
Everytime i tie i try to learn something.
Not in the midst of it, of course.
I like to go with the flow, listen to my bunny and do exactly what he/she wants in a way he/she doesn’t expect.
If I know the bunny loves to see himself in a futomomo then he will definitely end up hanging from one. It’s the right punishment from being so vain about a certain part of his body. The reward will be the pride of having fought the desire to run from that pain and call the tie off. The reward will be knowing that he is strong enough to hold that beautiful pose for how long I decided.
In this session what I learned was very simple: I didn’t listen enough.
He wanted to play, I stopped in fear of giving too much. My desire of being cautious and not letting myself fully go got in the way of my session.
People sometimes think that the bunny opens up completely to the rigger, get swept away by the tides of pain and pleasure, exposes himself to the rigger and to everyone who’s there – which is completely true – no one ever thinks that the rigger is about equally exposed, in my opinion. That’s what I feel when I tie. But this will be for another time =)
Oh, there are also a lot of technical mistakes here. They’re pretty obvious.
Still I don’t think they are as important as the rest*.
Keep on learning.
*this being said keeping in mind that no technical mistake here could potentially hurt M. Even the rope around his neck, as chaotic as it was, was fully under control.
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From my Instagram
Rigger is Beatrice Red Lily
Taken @ Osaka Dan and Gestalta’s worskshop in Rome
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Exposed by/for him.
Rigger is my husband.
We went to London for some classes with Esinem and Nina. It was great ❤
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More than 12 years ago two men asked me if i wanted to try shibari. I said yes and one of those men changed me and helped me to define what i wanted in life.
As a bday gift, all these years after that night, i got to be tied up by the other man that changed it all.
Rigger is Stefano Laforgia.
Pics taken by my husband.
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