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wheres all the support for the emotional abuse victims
no, seriously. victims of emotional abuse have it hard because they do not have the physical marks or the records to “prove” to someone they were hurt and are hurting. most people will not take emotional abuse as seriously as physical abuse, saying “you should get over it” or “sticks and stones”. thats fucking bullshit.
emotional abuse victims who have been forced to do or say or be things you never wanted to, i love you.
emotional abuse victims who have been gaslighted and manipulated to the point where you no longer know what is real, i care for you.
emotional abuse victims who are told they will never be loved by anyone else and they are not a good person, you are amazing.
emotional abuse victims who feel manipulative and often catch themselves mirroring actions of their abusers and feel sick to their stomachs because theyre “turning into them”, you are not them and never will be. you are so much better than that.
emotional abuse victims who have to live every day suffering because nobody understands how messed up you are from what they said or did or made you do, you arent alone.
anyone who reads this, i care for you. please support all victims of abuse every single day because they deserve it just like they deserve the love and care those in the past have failed to provide them

#important #emotional abuse tw

@nabooqueen

Sun, 12 Mar 2017 15:25:12

Mod Note: Nick, also known as chev or chevreau, is no longer active on tumblr.

He has given me this blog so I could continue to spread awareness of River, also known as cavebae or masterfox3000.

In the recent months, River has tried to intergrate back into the social justice community, depsite the fact that when they were harassing Nick, they claimed otherwise.

She also continues to keep her ableism blog active(archive screenshot here) despite apparently believing in social justice. Here is proof that this is her blog.

She also continues to communicate with popular figures in the social justice community, such as crimewave420. Nick has informed me that Jared and River were friends on facebook. From looking at River’s blog, she still lists them as a friend.

Whether Jared was unware of River’s behavior or chosed to simply ignore it, Nick feels that they should be addressed as well, considering they’re prominent in the social justice community yet continue to associate with River.

I will leave the original callout is it is, however I will add some more trigger warnings to it: #ageplay #incest roleplaying

End of mod note.

ORIGINAL CALLOUT BY CHEVREAU/NICK BELOW

WARNING this post will contain content such as sexual harassment, gender dysphoria, perhaps transphobia/disregard for gender dysphoria, asexual erasure, homophobia maybe (homophobic stereotypes)

I originally made a vague post regarding my ex-partner (see here) because I saw people reblogging her posts, and it was making me uncomfortable.

Now, however, after speaking with other people about her, I have discovered that her behavior is not all-that new and she has treated multiple people the same way as me.

Thank you selchidh for also providing screencaps.

So I’m making an official callout post for River AKA tumblruser cavebae/~~biologiclust (NSFW)/dicksploiter~~ for sexual harassment

She has attempted to harass anyone who reblogs this post (only on anon though) information here

Edit: She made her own “callout post“ accusing me of necrophilia and animal abuse. Also involves more asexual erasure and disregard for the fact that I have always been open about my sexual confusion/asexuality. (warning for ableism at some parts)

More Info: Screencaps from June 3, more asexual erasure, blatant ableism

Her two callout andblogs are still up

She goes by the username masterfox3000 as well

Information under readmore

River and I started "dating” during sometime early April. It had started out as sexting when she informed me that she wanted help getting off because the birth control pills she was taking were increasing her sex drive.

However, after a couple of days of just teasing/sexting, things soon progressed to the point where she confessed she “loved” me.

However, it should be known that she was extremely persistent with her advances and “confessions”.

It was my first “relationship” (something that she was aware of) and I had told her multiple times that I wasn’t too comfortable with relationships, especially extremely romantic sexual ones.

Despite being told this, she would send me multiple messages (majority of them being sexual) per day.

I’m not going to upload all the screencaps in this one post because there are A LOT, but I will link them

They are all NSFW

This is only perhaps half of the messages she sent me over a span of two months.

When I had told her her sexual advances made me uncomfortable (for reasons that I have a history of sexual assault, gender dysphoria, and general confusion about my sexual) she would typically “play the victim”, or try to “comfort me” in order to be more sexual

Here is a chat log I had with River explaining my gender dysphoria and just general dislike for my body

[I then proceeded to tell her about my experiences of being sexually harassed as a teenager, and just the bullying I went through in high school]

This is all she really had to say about the matter. This chat was from April 20.

Even after this discussion, she still continued to send me sexual messages. They became more graphic, too, asking for specific role playing (particularly anything involving incest). She would also send me videos and nudes regularly.

It had gotten to the point where I could no longer handle her sex drive when she had decided to send me sexual comments when I was going through a difficult time with my dad. I had made posts about it during the time (and she saw, because she commented on them) about how my dad was in Moncton during the Moncton Shootings.

I had told her I was not in the mood and continued to ignore her messages for the rest of the night. She handled this very poorly and continued to send me messages while speaking poorly about me to selchidh/zh (who provided the following chat):

[14-06-06 12:08:40 AM] Ｒｉｖｅｒ: I honestly do not get what people wouldnt get out of pandering
[14-06-06 12:09:08 AM] cafeniu: huh
[14-06-06 12:09:17 AM] Ｒｉｖｅｒ: Like really what would be the reason to even keep me
[14-06-06 12:09:51 AM] Ｒｉｖｅｒ: If hes being ok to stay with me then why
[14-06-06 12:10:02 AM] Ｒｉｖｅｒ: Hes forcing
[14-06-06 12:10:10 AM] Ｒｉｖｅｒ: To be ok with me
[14-06-06 12:10:13 AM] Ｒｉｖｅｒ: But WHY
[7:37:42 PM] cafeniu: [14-06-06 12:23:20 AM] Ｒｉｖｅｒ: Ughhjjjj
[14-06-06 12:23:23 AM] Ｒｉｖｅｒ: -
[14-06-06 12:24:19 AM] cafeniu: ???
[14-06-06 12:25:15 AM] Ｒｉｖｅｒ: THINGD
[14-06-06 12:25:17 AM] Ｒｉｖｅｒ: S
[14-06-06 12:25:30 AM] Ｒｉｖｅｒ: I DON T GET IT I TRIED !
[14-06-06 12:26:39 AM] cafeniu: agh
[14-06-06 1:04:24 AM] Ｒｉｖｅｒ: WE TALKED
[14-06-06 1:04:26 AM] Ｒｉｖｅｒ: ITS OK
[14-06-06 1:07:14 AM] cafeniu: how it go
[14-06-06 12:56:32 PM] Ｒｉｖｅｒ: i overreacted i think but then again so did he
[14-06-06 12:56:45 PM] Ｒｉｖｅｒ: we were both sad
[7:38:00 PM] cafeniu: [14-04-30 12:55:27 AM] Ｒｉｖｅｒ: im gonna find chev and just FUCK
[14-04-30 12:55:37 AM] pontata: isnt chev asexual
[14-04-30 12:55:39 AM] pontata: i forgot
[14-04-30 12:55:48 AM] Ｒｉｖｅｒ: not really
[7:38:09 PM] cafeniu: [14-06-06 12:01:39 AM] Ｒｉｖｅｒ: also he didn’t comfirm as asexual he just said “wow i thought i might be”
[14-06-06 12:01:51 AM] Ｒｉｖｅｒ: I really don’t get it.
[7:38:59 PM] cafeniu: [14-06-05 11:57:47 PM] Ｒｉｖｅｒ: I think im being dumped
[14-06-05 11:58:03 PM] Ｒｉｖｅｒ: by chev because he thinks im using him for sexual narcism
[14-06-05 11:58:11 PM] Ｒｉｖｅｒ: when im just… really power bottom

zh also informed me that River had disgregarded my sexuality/confusion with my sexual multiple times before, even insinuating that because I enjoyed gay porn I wasn’t asexual

Anyway, after that incident, I had told River that I wanted to break up (sometime on June 14 - I can’t remember the exact date) after she had sent me several incoherent/hostile messages because I was I was acting silly during one of her video game streams

These are only some of the messages I received

A couple days after she had unfollowed me and no longer spoke to me. I had thought it was the end of everything, however, it turned out that she was telling people that we were still together (screencaps provided by zh again)

I had just found out about this literally like, 3 days ago too when zh had told me (my own screencaps)

Afterwards, I was extremely upset and began to basically blog about my displeasure about finding out River was lying to people about our relationship, which caused her to send the following asks present in this post

I have heard that this behavior is not necessarily new for River - however I will not speak about the experiences of other people as I do not have their permission.

This post is mostly about my own interactions with River and how she treated me. I made this post in order to warn others that she is extremely manipulative and does not understand the meaning of “no”.

#abuse tw #emotional abuse tw #ableism tw #sexual harassment tw #callout #cavebae #masterfox3000 #crimewave420 #signal boost #abusers

@callout-cavebae

Wed, 06 May 2015 16:03:28

Mod Note: Nick, also known as chev or chevreau, is no longer active on tumblr.

He has given me this blog so I could continue to spread awareness of River, also known as cavebae or masterfox3000.

In the recent months, River has tried to intergrate back into the social justice community, depsite the fact that when they were harassing Nick, they claimed otherwise.

She also continues to keep her ableism blog active(archive screenshot here) despite apparently believing in social justice. Here is proof that this is her blog.

She also continues to communicate with popular figures in the social justice community, such as crimewave420. Nick has informed me that Jared and River were friends on facebook. From looking at River’s blog, she still lists them as a friend.

Whether Jared was unware of River’s behavior or chosed to simply ignore it, Nick feels that they should be addressed as well, considering they’re prominent in the social justice community yet continue to associate with River.

I will leave the original callout is it is, however I will add some more trigger warnings to it: #ageplay #incest roleplaying

End of mod note.

ORIGINAL CALLOUT BY CHEVREAU/NICK BELOW